"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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wat if a girl starts to pull some dj?

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Don Juan
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i know im young, but i need you guys w/ some wisdom to help me with this, it may seem like a simple question but i cant find the answer and i get confronted with this alot, what do you do when a girl starts to dj you? it doesnt work to dj at the same time, or at least how its normally done(well as best as i can do it), how do you handle this and come off as the dj you are and not like half afc?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NewMan

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You constantly remain the DJ.

If she plays these silly games - so what?

You remain the DJ - and she will either get on board or not.

The strongest will survive and you must remain unbending.

Her a## will whip into shape if you've got your sh#t down.

If not - remember these plenty more girls out there.
 

TooColdUlrick

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chicks are lame at being DJ's. it's not in their nature. don't confuse DJ tendencies with a DJ strategy on her part.

anyway, you just need to have better game. you MUST because you are the man and you lead the relationship.
 
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