"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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wat if a girl starts to pull some dj?

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i know im young, but i need you guys w/ some wisdom to help me with this, it may seem like a simple question but i cant find the answer and i get confronted with this alot, what do you do when a girl starts to dj you? it doesnt work to dj at the same time, or at least how its normally done(well as best as i can do it), how do you handle this and come off as the dj you are and not like half afc?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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NewMan

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You constantly remain the DJ.

If she plays these silly games - so what?

You remain the DJ - and she will either get on board or not.

The strongest will survive and you must remain unbending.

Her a## will whip into shape if you've got your sh#t down.

If not - remember these plenty more girls out there.
 

TooColdUlrick

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chicks are lame at being DJ's. it's not in their nature. don't confuse DJ tendencies with a DJ strategy on her part.

anyway, you just need to have better game. you MUST because you are the man and you lead the relationship.
 
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