"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wat if a girl starts to pull some dj?

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i know im young, but i need you guys w/ some wisdom to help me with this, it may seem like a simple question but i cant find the answer and i get confronted with this alot, what do you do when a girl starts to dj you? it doesnt work to dj at the same time, or at least how its normally done(well as best as i can do it), how do you handle this and come off as the dj you are and not like half afc?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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NewMan

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You constantly remain the DJ.

If she plays these silly games - so what?

You remain the DJ - and she will either get on board or not.

The strongest will survive and you must remain unbending.

Her a## will whip into shape if you've got your sh#t down.

If not - remember these plenty more girls out there.
 

TooColdUlrick

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chicks are lame at being DJ's. it's not in their nature. don't confuse DJ tendencies with a DJ strategy on her part.

anyway, you just need to have better game. you MUST because you are the man and you lead the relationship.
 
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