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Was Will Smith Alpha for Slapping Chris Rock after he Disrespected his Wife?

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Here is the full video for those of you who haven't seen it, what do you guys think did Will Smith lose his cool or did he do the right thing?

The Fresh Simp of Bel Air?

 
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Here is the full video for those of you who haven't seen it, what do you guys think did Will Smith lose his cool or did he do the right thing?

The Fresh Simp of Bel Air?

if indeed this is true , then yeah he is a big simp

and I hope that guys will understand that the vast majority of celebrities are actual simps

Will smith used to be cool , but if this is true , he will be kicked out of Hollywood and basically his career will be over

And all of this for what , for an ugly old woman that looks like a guy that cheated on him and so on

if he would have been a bit red pilled , he would have done like brad Pitt and just leave before things get even worse
 

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Some guy insulted his wife because of a health condition, in public, for the entire planet to see.
Regardless of past behaviour, who slept with whom, he did the right thing.
All of you “alphas” “red pilled “ dudes who say he was wrong or he is still a beta, are just a bunch of behind the keyboard poosies.
 

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Some guy insulted his wife because of a health condition, in public, for the entire planet to see.
Regardless of past behaviour, who slept with whom, he did the right thing.
All of you “alphas” “red pilled “ dudes who say he was wrong or he is still a beta, are just a bunch of behind the keyboard poosies.
what health condition ?

he initially was laughing at the joke Chris rock made , then his wife jada was butt Hurt , and then will smith comes on stage and slaps Chris rock

sorry man , nothing alpha about the behavior
 

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what health condition ?

he initially was laughing at the joke Chris rock made , then his wife jada was butt Hurt , and then will smith comes on stage and slaps Chris rock

sorry man , nothing alpha about the behavior
It’s called alopecia, I.e the hair doesn’t grow anymore. There is no cure.
In your opinion, an alpha man should have said nothing, laughed, and taken the L, right ?
 

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Regardless of whether it's stage or not, some girls do in fact get turned on seeing their man beat the sh1t outta some other guy who was harassing her. Some don't like it because he's too "controlling/reactive." Not calm = aka the opposite of what red pill says a man should behave if he wants to be attractive to women.
 

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It’s called alopecia, I.e the hair doesn’t grow anymore. There is no cure.
In your opinion, an alpha man should have said nothing, laughed, and taken the L, right ?
like @samspade mentioned , he initially laughed then he went to slap that guy .

if indeed this were his true feelings about the matter will smith would have first of all not laugh and second of all he could have said “ yo man , not cool “

he did not had to make a scene , mainly because his wife did not agree with the joke .It was a total simp move , not al alpha move

now imagine how things would have been if the scene was not about “ a strong independent woman and a simp “ . Will smith would have been in jail and his actor career ended
 

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He did the honorable thing in defending his wife, just went about it wrong. Should've "confronted" him at a later time that night when the camera's weren't rolling. In the eyes of many he just came across as a fool.

The odd thing is he wasn't even bothered at first - he was laughing at the joke. If there is one good thing about it he may have injected life into the Oscars Ceremony and double the ratings for next year; 4 people will tune in live.
 

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He did the honorable thing in defending his wife
I think it would have been more honorable yelling out "It'll be a porno" after Chris Rock made the G.I. Jane movie comment. That piece of 5hit woman doesn't deserve to be defended, but I guess you have to do that when you make a wh0re a housewife.
 

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The key was he went up there only after seeing his "wife" upset at the joke. He looked about his whipped as one possibly could. Not to mention he did this on live TV knowing that Rock wasn't going to retaliate in any serious fashion OR if he did there would have been 50 people rushing both of them to put a stop to it.

It is sort of like when NBA players start shoving each other back and forth. We know nothing is going to happen - this was the same thing except he took some cheap b1tch slap shot at Rock then immediately walked away. There is ZERO alpha about what he did. I would have lost a lot of respect for Will Smith if I had any for him to begin with.
 

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The key was he went up there only after seeing his "wife" upset at the joke. He looked about his whipped as one possibly could. Not to mention he did this on live TV knowing that Rock wasn't going to retaliate in any serious fashion OR if he did there would have been 50 people rushing both of them to put a stop to it.

It is sort of like when NBA players start shoving each other back and forth. We know nothing is going to happen - this was the same thing except he took some cheap b1tch slap shot at Rock then immediately walked away. There is ZERO alpha about what he did. I would have lost a lot of respect for Will Smith if I had any for him to begin with.
hope that this is a good example about how alpha are the celebrities :)

real alphas are not in politics , business , etc because they are not agreeable enough in most cases ( at least this days )

You have almost nothing to learn from celebrities when it comes to dating , as most of them mainly sleep with girls due to their status and not due to their game

their game is “ I am will smith , and I am very known and have money “
 

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It wasn't real. The Oscars' ratings hit an all-time low last year, so this year, they decided to give us a moment that would go viral. If you watch the video again, I don't even think Will's hand made contact with Chris. It was one of those fake TV slaps.

These people are actors. They gave us a performance.
 

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Here is the full video for those of you who haven't seen it, what do you guys think did Will Smith lose his cool or did he do the right thing?

The Fresh Simp of Bel Air?

As much as I like Will Smith as an actor, and seems like a cool guy to hang out with I lost a bit of respect for the whole Jada thing a while back. He is what I would have considered a high-value man, no reason why he needs to conform to Jada and her antics.

As for the altercation, slapping another man is not necessarily alpha. Especially because he is protecting someone who completely disrespect him and emasculated him in public.

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Here is the full video for those of you who haven't seen it, what do you guys think did Will Smith lose his cool or did he do the right thing?

The Fresh Simp of Bel Air?

It was uncalled for. Alopecia is male/female pattern baldness which can be minimized for both genders. If caught early, it can be limited by finasteride and minoxidil; both which are approved for both genders. There's also hair transplants; which I am sure Will can afford.

Chris Rock is 5'10'', so I am surprised he didn't smack him back or walk off the stage and have charges pressed against Will Smith. Smith acted very unprofessionally and not as an adult. It was an innocent joke which he responded to with violence. If it was you or I, we'd be arrested. But since it's Will Smith, nothing happened, this sets a bad view of the people who have power and the ones who don't.

Smacking a person because a comic said he looks forward in seeing his wife in G.I. Jane 2 shouldn't result in being smacked. He should be arrested and charged with assault and battery.
 

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