I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
if indeed this is true , then yeah he is a big simpHere is the full video for those of you who haven't seen it, what do you guys think did Will Smith lose his cool or did he do the right thing?
The Fresh Simp of Bel Air?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
what health condition ?Some guy insulted his wife because of a health condition, in public, for the entire planet to see.
Regardless of past behaviour, who slept with whom, he did the right thing.
All of you “alphas” “red pilled “ dudes who say he was wrong or he is still a beta, are just a bunch of behind the keyboard poosies.
It’s called alopecia, I.e the hair doesn’t grow anymore. There is no cure.what health condition ?
he initially was laughing at the joke Chris rock made , then his wife jada was butt Hurt , and then will smith comes on stage and slaps Chris rock
sorry man , nothing alpha about the behavior
It's been a long and drawn out process. He's also made many excuses for her and their situation. It's not a good example.his wife cucked him on Live TV. a while back, she has ZERO SMV and she finessed Detective Mike Lowrey.
Hes not Alpha
like @samspade mentioned , he initially laughed then he went to slap that guy .It’s called alopecia, I.e the hair doesn’t grow anymore. There is no cure.
In your opinion, an alpha man should have said nothing, laughed, and taken the L, right ?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
She's been assassinating his image for the last several years at least that amount is what the media is allowing people to see.his wife cucked him on Live TV. a while back, she has ZERO SMV and she finessed Detective Mike Lowrey.
Hes not Alpha
I think it would have been more honorable yelling out "It'll be a porno" after Chris Rock made the G.I. Jane movie comment. That piece of 5hit woman doesn't deserve to be defended, but I guess you have to do that when you make a wh0re a housewife.He did the honorable thing in defending his wife
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
hope that this is a good example about how alpha are the celebritiesThe key was he went up there only after seeing his "wife" upset at the joke. He looked about his whipped as one possibly could. Not to mention he did this on live TV knowing that Rock wasn't going to retaliate in any serious fashion OR if he did there would have been 50 people rushing both of them to put a stop to it.
It is sort of like when NBA players start shoving each other back and forth. We know nothing is going to happen - this was the same thing except he took some cheap b1tch slap shot at Rock then immediately walked away. There is ZERO alpha about what he did. I would have lost a lot of respect for Will Smith if I had any for him to begin with.
As much as I like Will Smith as an actor, and seems like a cool guy to hang out with I lost a bit of respect for the whole Jada thing a while back. He is what I would have considered a high-value man, no reason why he needs to conform to Jada and her antics.Here is the full video for those of you who haven't seen it, what do you guys think did Will Smith lose his cool or did he do the right thing?
The Fresh Simp of Bel Air?
It was uncalled for. Alopecia is male/female pattern baldness which can be minimized for both genders. If caught early, it can be limited by finasteride and minoxidil; both which are approved for both genders. There's also hair transplants; which I am sure Will can afford.Here is the full video for those of you who haven't seen it, what do you guys think did Will Smith lose his cool or did he do the right thing?
The Fresh Simp of Bel Air?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.