"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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was what she said good?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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foomee

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not at all haha. annoying is never good. and to top it all off, little brother is far worse. you're not just in the friend zone, you're practically a brother to her.
either give this girl space or act sexual towards her.
 

WaterTiger

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Annoying little brother...

"Annoying" people are not fun to hang out with

"Little" brothers are smaller, less powerful, less experienced, less educated and less mature.

"Brothers" DO NOT get sex

So, do YOU think it was a good thing????
 

tsmith2334

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yea... that's bad.

a girl i'm interested in called my "bro" the other day and i thought that was bad enough...

what she told you... totally not good
 

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i forgot to mention.

this was said during a playful conversation where bits of ****y and funny were thrown into the mix.

i realize before being so vague that it does come off as a total rejection statement.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I don't know about annoying or little (which both don't sound good unless shes joking) but I know brother=AFC/LJBF go do this for me little bro she will never **** her brother....
So that doesn't sound good....bad
 

tsmith2334

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on a side note... a girl said "thanks bro" after i totally fukked up on an attemped half-compliment... any way i can get back up from that??
 

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tryst type said:
i forgot to mention.

this was said during a playful conversation where bits of ****y and funny were thrown into the mix.

i realize before being so vague that it does come off as a total rejection statement.
You should've replied to her with:

"That's good, cause the sex wouldn't have been great I bet."

or

"Ya, you're right, you are just a friend." (At that point, get up and do something else, like leave.)

tsmith- When a girl calls you bro, thats like a guy calling a woman dude.
 

Nexus Polaris

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I had a girl I was talking to call me "homie" once. It pissed me off. At that point, I knew we were done fücking.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WesCottII

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Id've said

"yeah, and you're like the big sister, who's got aload of hot mates"

Seriously, addressing an issue in the game here is the key.

What are you doing wrong?

Annoying people are: Always there, always talking, butting in, always making un-funny jokes....take your pic. Are you doing any of these things?
 

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shuldve of replied with, ur liek the girlfriend i never had...
 

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I'd say no.

1. Annoying is bad
2. Little brother- she sees you as inferior
 

DonJuan11

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tryst type said:
"you're like the annoying little brother i never had"
You got to be kidding me. People on this site sometimes don't know left from right. Imagine a girl liked you and you told her: "You are like to the annoying little sister I never had."

Then she comes and asks us: Does he like me?

I would tell her "not really, that was a nice way of telling you where to go"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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