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"you're like the annoying little brother i never had"
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
was what she said good?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
foomee
Senior Don Juan
not at all haha. annoying is never good. and to top it all off, little brother is far worse. you're not just in the friend zone, you're practically a brother to her.
either give this girl space or act sexual towards her.
either give this girl space or act sexual towards her.
WaterTiger
Master Don Juan
Annoying little brother...
"Annoying" people are not fun to hang out with
"Little" brothers are smaller, less powerful, less experienced, less educated and less mature.
"Brothers" DO NOT get sex
So, do YOU think it was a good thing????
"Annoying" people are not fun to hang out with
"Little" brothers are smaller, less powerful, less experienced, less educated and less mature.
"Brothers" DO NOT get sex
So, do YOU think it was a good thing????
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
yea... that's bad.
a girl i'm interested in called my "bro" the other day and i thought that was bad enough...
what she told you... totally not good
a girl i'm interested in called my "bro" the other day and i thought that was bad enough...
what she told you... totally not good
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i forgot to mention.
this was said during a playful conversation where bits of ****y and funny were thrown into the mix.
i realize before being so vague that it does come off as a total rejection statement.
this was said during a playful conversation where bits of ****y and funny were thrown into the mix.
i realize before being so vague that it does come off as a total rejection statement.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
DJ1234
Senior Don Juan
I don't know about annoying or little (which both don't sound good unless shes joking) but I know brother=AFC/LJBF go do this for me little bro she will never **** her brother....
So that doesn't sound good....bad
So that doesn't sound good....bad
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
on a side note... a girl said "thanks bro" after i totally fukked up on an attemped half-compliment... any way i can get back up from that??
Rhoto
Master Don Juan
You should've replied to her with:tryst type said:i forgot to mention.
this was said during a playful conversation where bits of ****y and funny were thrown into the mix.
i realize before being so vague that it does come off as a total rejection statement.
"That's good, cause the sex wouldn't have been great I bet."
or
"Ya, you're right, you are just a friend." (At that point, get up and do something else, like leave.)
tsmith- When a girl calls you bro, thats like a guy calling a woman dude.
DonGorgon
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Lol Funny Thread.
Nexus Polaris
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I had a girl I was talking to call me "homie" once. It pissed me off. At that point, I knew we were done fücking.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Id've said
"yeah, and you're like the big sister, who's got aload of hot mates"
Seriously, addressing an issue in the game here is the key.
What are you doing wrong?
Annoying people are: Always there, always talking, butting in, always making un-funny jokes....take your pic. Are you doing any of these things?
"yeah, and you're like the big sister, who's got aload of hot mates"
Seriously, addressing an issue in the game here is the key.
What are you doing wrong?
Annoying people are: Always there, always talking, butting in, always making un-funny jokes....take your pic. Are you doing any of these things?
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
hmmm... could have been worse then i guess...Rhoto said:tsmith- When a girl calls you bro, thats like a guy calling a woman dude.
You got to be kidding me. People on this site sometimes don't know left from right. Imagine a girl liked you and you told her: "You are like to the annoying little sister I never had."tryst type said:"you're like the annoying little brother i never had"
Then she comes and asks us: Does he like me?
I would tell her "not really, that was a nice way of telling you where to go"
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.