"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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was what she said good?

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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foomee

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not at all haha. annoying is never good. and to top it all off, little brother is far worse. you're not just in the friend zone, you're practically a brother to her.
either give this girl space or act sexual towards her.
 

WaterTiger

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Annoying little brother...

"Annoying" people are not fun to hang out with

"Little" brothers are smaller, less powerful, less experienced, less educated and less mature.

"Brothers" DO NOT get sex

So, do YOU think it was a good thing????
 

tsmith2334

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yea... that's bad.

a girl i'm interested in called my "bro" the other day and i thought that was bad enough...

what she told you... totally not good
 

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i forgot to mention.

this was said during a playful conversation where bits of ****y and funny were thrown into the mix.

i realize before being so vague that it does come off as a total rejection statement.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJ1234

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I don't know about annoying or little (which both don't sound good unless shes joking) but I know brother=AFC/LJBF go do this for me little bro she will never **** her brother....
So that doesn't sound good....bad
 

tsmith2334

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on a side note... a girl said "thanks bro" after i totally fukked up on an attemped half-compliment... any way i can get back up from that??
 

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tryst type said:
i forgot to mention.

this was said during a playful conversation where bits of ****y and funny were thrown into the mix.

i realize before being so vague that it does come off as a total rejection statement.
You should've replied to her with:

"That's good, cause the sex wouldn't have been great I bet."

or

"Ya, you're right, you are just a friend." (At that point, get up and do something else, like leave.)

tsmith- When a girl calls you bro, thats like a guy calling a woman dude.
 

Nexus Polaris

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I had a girl I was talking to call me "homie" once. It pissed me off. At that point, I knew we were done fücking.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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WesCottII

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Id've said

"yeah, and you're like the big sister, who's got aload of hot mates"

Seriously, addressing an issue in the game here is the key.

What are you doing wrong?

Annoying people are: Always there, always talking, butting in, always making un-funny jokes....take your pic. Are you doing any of these things?
 

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shuldve of replied with, ur liek the girlfriend i never had...
 

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I'd say no.

1. Annoying is bad
2. Little brother- she sees you as inferior
 

DonJuan11

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tryst type said:
"you're like the annoying little brother i never had"
You got to be kidding me. People on this site sometimes don't know left from right. Imagine a girl liked you and you told her: "You are like to the annoying little sister I never had."

Then she comes and asks us: Does he like me?

I would tell her "not really, that was a nice way of telling you where to go"
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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