"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I met this girl who is 5 years older than me and we were hitting it off pretty good. She asked me for my age and when I told her she said oh wow that makes me like a cougar! At different points of the night I teased her about being a cougar. I got her number and we've been texting each other ever since. Yesterday I saw an ad for the show The Cougars and I texted her saying So I saw an ad for that one show the Cougars, guess who it reminded me :) she texted me back saying haha hmmmmm. I then changed the subject and asked her how her day was, etc. I thought it was clever because it shows I was thinking of her, but now I'm thinking if it was lame or not? Thoughts?

I kind of realize this is a pointless question because we're still talking and it doesn't seem like it has affected our relationship, just basically wondering if sending these kinds of texts are okay?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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It's fine. Just don't make it an everyday thing unless she is reciprocating with something similar. Women like to laugh but they don't want someone who's a clown. A clown meaning a guy who thinks it is his job to make a woman laugh.
 
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Thanks for the response! Yeah I won't do that too often, it really did remind me of her though and I thought it would have been cute.
 
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You shouldnt be telling her you are thnking of her. Thats killing attraction.

Why are you texting her rubbish, keep it to a minimum and get her on a date asap. Unless you're trying to make friends?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ease said:
You shouldnt be telling her you are thnking of her. Thats killing attraction.

Why are you texting her rubbish, keep it to a minimum and get her on a date asap. Unless you're trying to make friends?
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??? I was told women love it when they know you're thinking about them. Obviously I'm not going to do it all the time, it's just something cute I wanted to text her.
 
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Its nice to tell them you saw something and it reminded you of her. Once in a while. Shows you have feelings and that's the way to seduce a high quality women. Wh0res are a different story.
 
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Tiguere said:
Its nice to tell them you saw something and it reminded you of her. Once in a while. Shows you have feelings and that's the way to seduce a high quality women. Wh0res are a different story.
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Okay cool I wasn't planning on making this a daily ritual.
 
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