"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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was this a **** test?

poohead

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girl i met in a bar emails me.
we start corresponding for a couple of days - all of a sudden, she stops responding.

4-5 days later she writes back, apologizes and says she's been sick/busy. we correspond for about a day. then she emails me her phone number and says 'call me tonight if you want'. i call her that night. she tells me she has to go to the gym and will call me back in a couple hours. she never calls back. i haven't called her back either.

was this a **** test of some type, to see how quickly i'd call?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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blinkwatt

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Yes,it sounds like a test from me. But now that you didnt call I bet she is thinking,"wtf why didnt he call me". Just dont mention that you didnt call her,let her bring it up. Best of luck!
 

poohead

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well, she said 'i'm going to the gym i'll call you back in 2 hrs'. so i didn't call her cos i was waiting for her to call me. i don't think she is wondering why i didn't call her back.

i think i already failed this test. what the hell kind of high maintenance biatch pulls this crap.
 

DJDamage

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poohead said:
was this a **** test of some type, to see how quickly i'd call?
Sounds to me that she is an attentionwh0re. Its up to you to set up the date and for her to show up (not the other way around, don't let her get the ball in her court). If she keeps on dragging it out or making excuses and postponing then get rid of her.

DJD
 
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