"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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was this a **** test?

poohead

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girl i met in a bar emails me.
we start corresponding for a couple of days - all of a sudden, she stops responding.

4-5 days later she writes back, apologizes and says she's been sick/busy. we correspond for about a day. then she emails me her phone number and says 'call me tonight if you want'. i call her that night. she tells me she has to go to the gym and will call me back in a couple hours. she never calls back. i haven't called her back either.

was this a **** test of some type, to see how quickly i'd call?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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blinkwatt

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Yes,it sounds like a test from me. But now that you didnt call I bet she is thinking,"wtf why didnt he call me". Just dont mention that you didnt call her,let her bring it up. Best of luck!
 

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well, she said 'i'm going to the gym i'll call you back in 2 hrs'. so i didn't call her cos i was waiting for her to call me. i don't think she is wondering why i didn't call her back.

i think i already failed this test. what the hell kind of high maintenance biatch pulls this crap.
 

DJDamage

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poohead said:
was this a **** test of some type, to see how quickly i'd call?
Sounds to me that she is an attentionwh0re. Its up to you to set up the date and for her to show up (not the other way around, don't let her get the ball in her court). If she keeps on dragging it out or making excuses and postponing then get rid of her.

DJD
 
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