"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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was this a **** test?

poohead

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girl i met in a bar emails me.
we start corresponding for a couple of days - all of a sudden, she stops responding.

4-5 days later she writes back, apologizes and says she's been sick/busy. we correspond for about a day. then she emails me her phone number and says 'call me tonight if you want'. i call her that night. she tells me she has to go to the gym and will call me back in a couple hours. she never calls back. i haven't called her back either.

was this a **** test of some type, to see how quickly i'd call?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blinkwatt

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Yes,it sounds like a test from me. But now that you didnt call I bet she is thinking,"wtf why didnt he call me". Just dont mention that you didnt call her,let her bring it up. Best of luck!
 

poohead

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well, she said 'i'm going to the gym i'll call you back in 2 hrs'. so i didn't call her cos i was waiting for her to call me. i don't think she is wondering why i didn't call her back.

i think i already failed this test. what the hell kind of high maintenance biatch pulls this crap.
 

DJDamage

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poohead said:
was this a **** test of some type, to see how quickly i'd call?
Sounds to me that she is an attentionwh0re. Its up to you to set up the date and for her to show up (not the other way around, don't let her get the ball in her court). If she keeps on dragging it out or making excuses and postponing then get rid of her.

DJD
 
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