Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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was this a **** test?

poohead

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girl i met in a bar emails me.
we start corresponding for a couple of days - all of a sudden, she stops responding.

4-5 days later she writes back, apologizes and says she's been sick/busy. we correspond for about a day. then she emails me her phone number and says 'call me tonight if you want'. i call her that night. she tells me she has to go to the gym and will call me back in a couple hours. she never calls back. i haven't called her back either.

was this a **** test of some type, to see how quickly i'd call?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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blinkwatt

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Yes,it sounds like a test from me. But now that you didnt call I bet she is thinking,"wtf why didnt he call me". Just dont mention that you didnt call her,let her bring it up. Best of luck!
 

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well, she said 'i'm going to the gym i'll call you back in 2 hrs'. so i didn't call her cos i was waiting for her to call me. i don't think she is wondering why i didn't call her back.

i think i already failed this test. what the hell kind of high maintenance biatch pulls this crap.
 

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poohead said:
was this a **** test of some type, to see how quickly i'd call?
Sounds to me that she is an attentionwh0re. Its up to you to set up the date and for her to show up (not the other way around, don't let her get the ball in her court). If she keeps on dragging it out or making excuses and postponing then get rid of her.

DJD
 
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