This happened with a coworker. She recently caught her BF in bed with the X. Came in the morning crying and all, told me about situation etc. Shift forward to 2 days later. Another coworker mentioned how she would be so pissed if she got back with the guy. She left, and we were alone. I said "I know you are smart..." She said that she has "needs." I don't know why I didn't use any CF, cus this was a really good opportunity. I think of her as a friend but she is hot. I said something along the lines that assume you would know your body better than a guy. (suggesting she buy a vibrator) She said "its not the same." (another missed opportunity) Now when the next day arrives. So when I go to work next... are there any suggestions on how the convos could be turned sexual /and/or mabe continue where we talked about eariler?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
if she still feels sad, tell her you gonna take her on a date to cheer her up, and do something fun and cheap, like something with action in it, and a cooldown at the end, like ging go-kart racing then then going somewhere to eat.
GO kart racing? Are you kidding? Shes not 12 lol
Take her somewhere she can relax and realize what an amazing man you are. It will both, convince her there are better guys out there and perhaps open up a door for you -
I could hardly understand your explanation but I hope this helped
Take her somewhere she can relax and realize what an amazing man you are. It will both, convince her there are better guys out there and perhaps open up a door for you -
I could hardly understand your explanation but I hope this helped
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I would leave her alone for a while and look for other ladies. Ask her out again after she has regrouped emotionally. But if she's crying to you and telling how her BF cheated on her she probably sees you no more than a friend.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
just remeber you are there most likely only for a rebound
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah lol. Just dont expect anything else or you will prolly get burned. and dont let her complain about her bf to you......thats what afc's do. if she starts blabbering CHANGE the convo. Tell her to forget him and do something fun WITH YOU
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
even if it makes you like a "little kid"..... thats a good thing. It says are are in touch with yourself and know how to have fun. Society has not put its propaganda in your head. All of us have a kid inside of them and a woman will love a guy that can bring it out of her