This happened with a coworker. She recently caught her BF in bed with the X. Came in the morning crying and all, told me about situation etc. Shift forward to 2 days later. Another coworker mentioned how she would be so pissed if she got back with the guy. She left, and we were alone. I said "I know you are smart..." She said that she has "needs." I don't know why I didn't use any CF, cus this was a really good opportunity. I think of her as a friend but she is hot. I said something along the lines that assume you would know your body better than a guy. (suggesting she buy a vibrator) She said "its not the same." (another missed opportunity) Now when the next day arrives. So when I go to work next... are there any suggestions on how the convos could be turned sexual /and/or mabe continue where we talked about eariler?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Was this a invitation?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
if she still feels sad, tell her you gonna take her on a date to cheer her up, and do something fun and cheap, like something with action in it, and a cooldown at the end, like ging go-kart racing then then going somewhere to eat.
GO kart racing? Are you kidding? Shes not 12 lol
Take her somewhere she can relax and realize what an amazing man you are. It will both, convince her there are better guys out there and perhaps open up a door for you -
I could hardly understand your explanation but I hope this helped
Take her somewhere she can relax and realize what an amazing man you are. It will both, convince her there are better guys out there and perhaps open up a door for you -
I could hardly understand your explanation but I hope this helped
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I would leave her alone for a while and look for other ladies. Ask her out again after she has regrouped emotionally. But if she's crying to you and telling how her BF cheated on her she probably sees you no more than a friend.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
just remeber you are there most likely only for a rebound
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah lol. Just dont expect anything else or you will prolly get burned. and dont let her complain about her bf to you......thats what afc's do. if she starts blabbering CHANGE the convo. Tell her to forget him and do something fun WITH YOU
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Fenderules
Master Don Juan
even if it makes you like a "little kid"..... thats a good thing. It says are are in touch with yourself and know how to have fun. Society has not put its propaganda in your head. All of us have a kid inside of them and a woman will love a guy that can bring it out of her