"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Blinky

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A girl can only have girlfriends and boyfriends,..and if I'm not her boyfriend I must be her girlfriend if the word friend is used and i'm not ****ing her ;) ... which I have no desire too be.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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DJ philosophy, gotta love it....
 

Rollo Tomassi

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Hold on, I'm writing this down,..;)

Good observation.
 

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simple but effective!

but I bet there is a guy out there saying: nooooo I am a guy that makes me her guy friend, its not as simple as that! I like her company!

But if you tell that sponge to compare himself - who does he have more in common with the girl's boyfriend or her girlfriend, he will have tough time answering it....

You are only in the boyfriend catagory if you are able to fvck her!
sounds Juvenile?? yes but its true!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Depends on your state of mind. If you WANT to be her boyfriend and she keeps rejecting you and you are pining away all dog-faced and hurt while she uses and abuses you, then I would agree with you.

However, I have many women who are valued friends. Women are people too (ahahaa) and guess which one makes you look more appealing and attractive to other women:

A. Going to a bar with your guy friend, or
B. Going to a bar with your attractive lady friend.

or

A. Hanging out at the mall with your best friend Bernie, or
B. Hanging out at the mall with your attractive friend Linda.

Of course, I do agree in a certain respect: I do not have any women friends whom I haven't already fvcked and gotten tired of. I would never hang out with some chick who I wanted to plow but had no chance in doing so.
 

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Actually my answers would be 'A' and 'A'. I'd take my wingman over an attractive 'friend' any day and get more action. This is a huge AFC fallacy - guy thinks company of hot chick makes him worthy of the attention of other hot chicks. Never plays out, only scares off potential HBs.
 

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More "DJ" simplified bullcrap. I've had purely platonic friendships with girls before, many of whom I wasn't attracted to at all. A lot of girls simply enjoy the company of guys much more than girls, and some girls are really cool to hang out with. I've never been a "girly friend" either.

But if this little philosophy of yours helps you get laid more, then more power to ya.
 

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I see. And of the 'platonic' friends how many of them did you initiate the friendship with? If you weren't attracted to them in the first place I'd expect it was them who initiated with you?
 

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wtf guys ? Why the hell wouldn't u wanna be friends with girls ? Are you all social recluses that have no friends ?

The majority of people I see on this forum are nerdy guys or scrawny asians by the pics you post. Clearly they have problems getting girls whether it be confidence or self-esteem related.

But if you're a social guy, you should have many girl friends. And if you don't, b/c u feel u should be fu#king them, then you clearly do not get a lot of women.

I'm just in awe at the amount of bs thats being spewed on this thread.

Obviously, if you are going after a woman, and she throws u into friends zone, you don't want that. But you can't just have all guy friends. The more girl friends you have, the better you will be able to relate with them, when it comes time to hit on girls.

The more women you are around, even if its friendship-based, its EXPERIENCE. How can you be socially-adjusted without a few good female friends.

If you guys dont have any very close female friends, then you need to rethink your actions. Be more sociable ! Its necessary to becoming the dj
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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