Was thinking and I realised

[Blinky]

A girl can only have girlfriends and boyfriends,..and if I'm not her boyfriend I must be her girlfriend if the word friend is used and i'm not ****ing her ... which I have no desire too be.

 

[SpeedRunner]

well said, my man... i dont want to be a girlfriend either.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

DJ philosophy, gotta love it....

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Hold on, I'm writing this down,..

Good observation.

 

[DJDamage]

simple but effective!

but I bet there is a guy out there saying: nooooo I am a guy that makes me her guy friend, its not as simple as that! I like her company!

But if you tell that sponge to compare himself - who does he have more in common with the girl's boyfriend or her girlfriend, he will have tough time answering it....

You are only in the boyfriend catagory if you are able to fvck her!
sounds Juvenile?? yes but its true!

 

[prosemont]

Depends on your state of mind. If you WANT to be her boyfriend and she keeps rejecting you and you are pining away all dog-faced and hurt while she uses and abuses you, then I would agree with you.

However, I have many women who are valued friends. Women are people too (ahahaa) and guess which one makes you look more appealing and attractive to other women:

A. Going to a bar with your guy friend, or
B. Going to a bar with your attractive lady friend.

or

A. Hanging out at the mall with your best friend Bernie, or
B. Hanging out at the mall with your attractive friend Linda.

Of course, I do agree in a certain respect: I do not have any women friends whom I haven't already fvcked and gotten tired of. I would never hang out with some chick who I wanted to plow but had no chance in doing so.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

Actually my answers would be 'A' and 'A'. I'd take my wingman over an attractive 'friend' any day and get more action. This is a huge AFC fallacy - guy thinks company of hot chick makes him worthy of the attention of other hot chicks. Never plays out, only scares off potential HBs.

 

[Scrumtulescence]

More "DJ" simplified bullcrap. I've had purely platonic friendships with girls before, many of whom I wasn't attracted to at all. A lot of girls simply enjoy the company of guys much more than girls, and some girls are really cool to hang out with. I've never been a "girly friend" either.

But if this little philosophy of yours helps you get laid more, then more power to ya.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

I see. And of the 'platonic' friends how many of them did you initiate the friendship with? If you weren't attracted to them in the first place I'd expect it was them who initiated with you?

 

[Wiesman44]

wtf guys ? Why the hell wouldn't u wanna be friends with girls ? Are you all social recluses that have no friends ?

The majority of people I see on this forum are nerdy guys or scrawny asians by the pics you post. Clearly they have problems getting girls whether it be confidence or self-esteem related.

But if you're a social guy, you should have many girl friends. And if you don't, b/c u feel u should be fu#king them, then you clearly do not get a lot of women.

I'm just in awe at the amount of bs thats being spewed on this thread.

Obviously, if you are going after a woman, and she throws u into friends zone, you don't want that. But you can't just have all guy friends. The more girl friends you have, the better you will be able to relate with them, when it comes time to hit on girls.

The more women you are around, even if its friendship-based, its EXPERIENCE. How can you be socially-adjusted without a few good female friends.

If you guys dont have any very close female friends, then you need to rethink your actions. Be more sociable ! Its necessary to becoming the dj