"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Was thinking and I realised
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SpeedRunner
Don Juan
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Good observation.
but I bet there is a guy out there saying: nooooo I am a guy that makes me her guy friend, its not as simple as that! I like her company!
But if you tell that sponge to compare himself - who does he have more in common with the girl's boyfriend or her girlfriend, he will have tough time answering it....
You are only in the boyfriend catagory if you are able to fvck her!
sounds Juvenile?? yes but its true!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
However, I have many women who are valued friends. Women are people too (ahahaa) and guess which one makes you look more appealing and attractive to other women:
A. Going to a bar with your guy friend, or
B. Going to a bar with your attractive lady friend.
or
A. Hanging out at the mall with your best friend Bernie, or
B. Hanging out at the mall with your attractive friend Linda.
Of course, I do agree in a certain respect: I do not have any women friends whom I haven't already fvcked and gotten tired of. I would never hang out with some chick who I wanted to plow but had no chance in doing so.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
But if this little philosophy of yours helps you get laid more, then more power to ya.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
The majority of people I see on this forum are nerdy guys or scrawny asians by the pics you post. Clearly they have problems getting girls whether it be confidence or self-esteem related.
But if you're a social guy, you should have many girl friends. And if you don't, b/c u feel u should be fu#king them, then you clearly do not get a lot of women.
I'm just in awe at the amount of bs thats being spewed on this thread.
Obviously, if you are going after a woman, and she throws u into friends zone, you don't want that. But you can't just have all guy friends. The more girl friends you have, the better you will be able to relate with them, when it comes time to hit on girls.
The more women you are around, even if its friendship-based, its EXPERIENCE. How can you be socially-adjusted without a few good female friends.
If you guys dont have any very close female friends, then you need to rethink your actions. Be more sociable ! Its necessary to becoming the dj
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.