"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Was the Last Girl who Dumped you BPD?
- Thread starter bigneil
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
usernamedox11
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Lol, Neil is so dumb. He just ignores legitimate points and just accuses people of random BS that comes to his head.
So Neil what about the girl I posted that people thought clearly looked better than your girl?
Neil is chugging fluoride right now.
usernamedox11
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ROFL
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
cityboy989
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Neil Special Ed chaperones they take him to the arcade to collect gold coins while he wears his secret government agent badge and holds his star trek fazer.
devilkingx2
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They are actual women who were formally rated, most of whom I dated, some who other members dated. NONE who cityboy989 dated of course.
He's too concerned they might find them and kick his sorry as-s for pretending he dated them.
Imagine that, cityboy989: showing members pictures of the girls you are talking about here.
Quick! Someone create another SS account just to take a shot at bigneil's women, all without having any women themselves!
I'll let you she-males raised by single moms go back to talking about trying to get phone numbers from 5s.
usernamedox11
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Hey Neil, I decided to do this since you doubted sh1t. Thought it would be fun.
Here is the girl
This is her with me at cheesecake factory. Notice the Rolex she is wearing on. That's my Rolex. We picked up from service and I let her wear it since I had my apple watch on. She covered her face because she thought she wasn't looking good since she had no makeup on and wasn't fixed up (insecure)
This is the shirt I am wearing on. A $325 burberry flannel.
This is a pic I just took with my phone of my watch and shirt.
So tell me am I still poor and unemployed and can't get pretty girls?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I love how I actually have members here who join SS just to let me know how much they have followed me. Did I piss off some fat girls or what?
Her Photofeeler score:
The Top 5 most Attractive photos (these are not sorted)
The Top 5 total score (sorted - note: there are three different girls pictured, I took four of these photos myself, the other is wonderer's girl)
AlexKaiser
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However, that doesn't mean anything.
Assuming you are being sarcastic, you think pills prove something?
What type of pills? So, your point was, you did everything perfect, but you were dating a girl who had to take crazy pills? So you're a player?
usernamedox11
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Okay Neil, so people think she is more attractive than your current GF from a looks standpoint, it seems. Here's the thing, if you crossed paths with the girl I'm hanging out with, I think you would be able to get her. She just likes a guy who isn't intimidated by her and can lead the way. So I am not gonna sit here and say I can get hotter girls. You make do with what crosses your path, and I happen to think it's a numbers game at the end of the day. I'm surprised by her trustworthiness score. So far she actually seems very trustworthy, open, and honest for a girl that looks like her. She's not a genius but she isn't dumb. She definitely prettier than my ex, but she doesn't do it for me like my ex. Sometimes it's not just how pretty the girl from a universal point of view. It's also how attracted she makes you feel to her. So if your current GF is the girl that does it for you more than any other girl, why worry what people think about her looks, y'know? If you enjoy her and she excites you that is all that matters.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The rating is for the photo. I'm sure I could photograph her and get higher scores.
I have to give you guys credit - you came up with 3 straight 100 rated girls and my girl never scored 100, nor did any girl I published photos of including models.
That was why I tried to fire you guys up, to put my girl in her place and raise the bar. SS is another form of Photofeeler. Thank you.
PS - Make sure to tell your girls that their photos scored 100! Hopefully it improves your relationships. Nothing validated my girlfriend (to herself) like these photos.
AlexKaiser
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Fluoxetine 100mg.
I'm...not being sarcastic? The poll and post literally just asked me if the last girl who hurt me/broke up with me was BPD, and I said yeah because that's what she told me. I wasn't going to open up a DSM IV and quiz her on it.
I'm saying that doesn't mean anything because I lost her because of my inexperience and insecurity.
I'm not trying to farm sour grapes or anything and go "that ***** was a crazy BPD like other people".
devilkingx2
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I would be so fvcking scared if a girl told me that she needed to be medicated to control her craziness