Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Was taking a "BREAK" a bad idea?

Mpgu3305

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A few weeks ago, my gf and I decided we should take a "break" in our relationship. We where both really busy, and didn't spend as much time together as we use to. At the time I thought it was a good idea, but now it seems like I made the wrong choice. I resumed my player tactics, but I still think about her all the time. Even when I'm kicking it with other girls, in the back of my mind she is there. She is a down ass chick, I told her before we got together that I have alot of girlfriends that I chill wit like they are one of the homies, and she said that was fine with that. I never did wrong by her, and was always true to her. We haven't really spoke in about 2 weeks, and as much as I try to move on, I keep thinking of her. I don't know what it is, but there is something SPECIAL about her. Something that sets her apart from all the other girls I know and have been with. I use to see her all the time during school, cause our friends always meet in the same place after each period. But now, I hardly ever see her during school. I'm close with all her friends, and they still come to the spot, but she is never with them anymore. When I do see her, I'm usually talking with my boys. I'll glance up, and see her looking my way, but she will act like she wasn't looking when I see her. WHAT DO I DO????:confused:

Should I try to get back with her? How should I do it??

OR

Move On?? How do I get my mind off of her then?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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xomel

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holy **** im not reading that. cliffe notes please?

basically:
if a guy wants to take a break its because the girl is giving the guy too much problems.

if a girl wants to take a break its to bang some other dude and not feel so bad. if she doesnt come back, hes a good ****, if she does, hes a bad ****.
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by i am me
Talk to her about it or get back together
This guy sums it up, but Xomel probably has experience behind what he wrote, so thnk about thta as well. You are also dealing with infatuation there. You are not the onely one,I think all of us at one time or another in our lives end up like you about some "special" girl.
 

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"Sadness is carried away by the wings of time" - Cant remember author.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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if a girl wants to take a break its to bang some other dude and not feel so bad. if she doesnt come back, hes a good ****, if she does, hes a bad ****.
simple, but the simple things are what amaze us :D
 
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