"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Was taking a "BREAK" a bad idea?

Mpgu3305

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A few weeks ago, my gf and I decided we should take a "break" in our relationship. We where both really busy, and didn't spend as much time together as we use to. At the time I thought it was a good idea, but now it seems like I made the wrong choice. I resumed my player tactics, but I still think about her all the time. Even when I'm kicking it with other girls, in the back of my mind she is there. She is a down ass chick, I told her before we got together that I have alot of girlfriends that I chill wit like they are one of the homies, and she said that was fine with that. I never did wrong by her, and was always true to her. We haven't really spoke in about 2 weeks, and as much as I try to move on, I keep thinking of her. I don't know what it is, but there is something SPECIAL about her. Something that sets her apart from all the other girls I know and have been with. I use to see her all the time during school, cause our friends always meet in the same place after each period. But now, I hardly ever see her during school. I'm close with all her friends, and they still come to the spot, but she is never with them anymore. When I do see her, I'm usually talking with my boys. I'll glance up, and see her looking my way, but she will act like she wasn't looking when I see her. WHAT DO I DO????:confused:

Should I try to get back with her? How should I do it??

OR

Move On?? How do I get my mind off of her then?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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xomel

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holy **** im not reading that. cliffe notes please?

basically:
if a guy wants to take a break its because the girl is giving the guy too much problems.

if a girl wants to take a break its to bang some other dude and not feel so bad. if she doesnt come back, hes a good ****, if she does, hes a bad ****.
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by i am me
Talk to her about it or get back together
This guy sums it up, but Xomel probably has experience behind what he wrote, so thnk about thta as well. You are also dealing with infatuation there. You are not the onely one,I think all of us at one time or another in our lives end up like you about some "special" girl.
 

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"Sadness is carried away by the wings of time" - Cant remember author.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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if a girl wants to take a break its to bang some other dude and not feel so bad. if she doesnt come back, hes a good ****, if she does, hes a bad ****.
simple, but the simple things are what amaze us :D
 
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