"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Was taking a "BREAK" a bad idea?

Mpgu3305

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A few weeks ago, my gf and I decided we should take a "break" in our relationship. We where both really busy, and didn't spend as much time together as we use to. At the time I thought it was a good idea, but now it seems like I made the wrong choice. I resumed my player tactics, but I still think about her all the time. Even when I'm kicking it with other girls, in the back of my mind she is there. She is a down ass chick, I told her before we got together that I have alot of girlfriends that I chill wit like they are one of the homies, and she said that was fine with that. I never did wrong by her, and was always true to her. We haven't really spoke in about 2 weeks, and as much as I try to move on, I keep thinking of her. I don't know what it is, but there is something SPECIAL about her. Something that sets her apart from all the other girls I know and have been with. I use to see her all the time during school, cause our friends always meet in the same place after each period. But now, I hardly ever see her during school. I'm close with all her friends, and they still come to the spot, but she is never with them anymore. When I do see her, I'm usually talking with my boys. I'll glance up, and see her looking my way, but she will act like she wasn't looking when I see her. WHAT DO I DO????:confused:

Should I try to get back with her? How should I do it??

OR

Move On?? How do I get my mind off of her then?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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xomel

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holy **** im not reading that. cliffe notes please?

basically:
if a guy wants to take a break its because the girl is giving the guy too much problems.

if a girl wants to take a break its to bang some other dude and not feel so bad. if she doesnt come back, hes a good ****, if she does, hes a bad ****.
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by i am me
Talk to her about it or get back together
This guy sums it up, but Xomel probably has experience behind what he wrote, so thnk about thta as well. You are also dealing with infatuation there. You are not the onely one,I think all of us at one time or another in our lives end up like you about some "special" girl.
 

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"Sadness is carried away by the wings of time" - Cant remember author.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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if a girl wants to take a break its to bang some other dude and not feel so bad. if she doesnt come back, hes a good ****, if she does, hes a bad ****.
simple, but the simple things are what amaze us :D
 
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