Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Was taking a "BREAK" a bad idea?

Mpgu3305

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A few weeks ago, my gf and I decided we should take a "break" in our relationship. We where both really busy, and didn't spend as much time together as we use to. At the time I thought it was a good idea, but now it seems like I made the wrong choice. I resumed my player tactics, but I still think about her all the time. Even when I'm kicking it with other girls, in the back of my mind she is there. She is a down ass chick, I told her before we got together that I have alot of girlfriends that I chill wit like they are one of the homies, and she said that was fine with that. I never did wrong by her, and was always true to her. We haven't really spoke in about 2 weeks, and as much as I try to move on, I keep thinking of her. I don't know what it is, but there is something SPECIAL about her. Something that sets her apart from all the other girls I know and have been with. I use to see her all the time during school, cause our friends always meet in the same place after each period. But now, I hardly ever see her during school. I'm close with all her friends, and they still come to the spot, but she is never with them anymore. When I do see her, I'm usually talking with my boys. I'll glance up, and see her looking my way, but she will act like she wasn't looking when I see her. WHAT DO I DO????:confused:

Should I try to get back with her? How should I do it??

OR

Move On?? How do I get my mind off of her then?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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xomel

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holy **** im not reading that. cliffe notes please?

basically:
if a guy wants to take a break its because the girl is giving the guy too much problems.

if a girl wants to take a break its to bang some other dude and not feel so bad. if she doesnt come back, hes a good ****, if she does, hes a bad ****.
 

wavejams007

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Originally posted by i am me
Talk to her about it or get back together
This guy sums it up, but Xomel probably has experience behind what he wrote, so thnk about thta as well. You are also dealing with infatuation there. You are not the onely one,I think all of us at one time or another in our lives end up like you about some "special" girl.
 

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"Sadness is carried away by the wings of time" - Cant remember author.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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if a girl wants to take a break its to bang some other dude and not feel so bad. if she doesnt come back, hes a good ****, if she does, hes a bad ****.
simple, but the simple things are what amaze us :D
 
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