"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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was my reaction justified!?!

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Don Juan
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yea, its been a couple days and we havent talked. im gonna wait for her to call me.

she actually is really insecure and ive had to talk to her before about how she needs to respect me more. and i dont need to tell her that its the captain not the boat, i've given her 12+ orgasms in a 45 min. period. its the PRINCIPAL of the thing that makes me angry. "i dont get no respect."

also, she is always telling me how much she loves me. she gets mad when i dont say it back. she gets worried if i dont call her everyday. she cries when she thinks im mad at her. you might think she is faking all that, but she is actually crying. its all real. is there anything i can do about all of this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Yea - I knew a girl that said I couldn't get wood in front of my mates. The 10 pints and 2 grams of coke didn't help that night.

That didn't amuse me and I said that to her calmly after my friend was gone.

Anyway - I think it was the wrong reaction as it wasn't strong enough and it meant she then thought she could do something similar again which she did.

I hope you reacted very badly and then she realised you weren't her ***** and her saying not to call her for a couple of days is her just trying to put you under the thumb again. Don't buy it - don't call her. When she calls you - remember, she's the one that has the grovelling to do and remember to be strong enough to walk if she doesn't. Otherwise, cut of your balls and hand them to her.
 

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Insecure girls will try to put you under the thumb because they're not confident they can keep you any other way.
 
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