"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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was my reaction justified!?!

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Don Juan
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yea, its been a couple days and we havent talked. im gonna wait for her to call me.

she actually is really insecure and ive had to talk to her before about how she needs to respect me more. and i dont need to tell her that its the captain not the boat, i've given her 12+ orgasms in a 45 min. period. its the PRINCIPAL of the thing that makes me angry. "i dont get no respect."

also, she is always telling me how much she loves me. she gets mad when i dont say it back. she gets worried if i dont call her everyday. she cries when she thinks im mad at her. you might think she is faking all that, but she is actually crying. its all real. is there anything i can do about all of this?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yea - I knew a girl that said I couldn't get wood in front of my mates. The 10 pints and 2 grams of coke didn't help that night.

That didn't amuse me and I said that to her calmly after my friend was gone.

Anyway - I think it was the wrong reaction as it wasn't strong enough and it meant she then thought she could do something similar again which she did.

I hope you reacted very badly and then she realised you weren't her ***** and her saying not to call her for a couple of days is her just trying to put you under the thumb again. Don't buy it - don't call her. When she calls you - remember, she's the one that has the grovelling to do and remember to be strong enough to walk if she doesn't. Otherwise, cut of your balls and hand them to her.
 

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Insecure girls will try to put you under the thumb because they're not confident they can keep you any other way.
 
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