"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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was my reaction justified!?!

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yea, its been a couple days and we havent talked. im gonna wait for her to call me.

she actually is really insecure and ive had to talk to her before about how she needs to respect me more. and i dont need to tell her that its the captain not the boat, i've given her 12+ orgasms in a 45 min. period. its the PRINCIPAL of the thing that makes me angry. "i dont get no respect."

also, she is always telling me how much she loves me. she gets mad when i dont say it back. she gets worried if i dont call her everyday. she cries when she thinks im mad at her. you might think she is faking all that, but she is actually crying. its all real. is there anything i can do about all of this?
 

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Yea - I knew a girl that said I couldn't get wood in front of my mates. The 10 pints and 2 grams of coke didn't help that night.

That didn't amuse me and I said that to her calmly after my friend was gone.

Anyway - I think it was the wrong reaction as it wasn't strong enough and it meant she then thought she could do something similar again which she did.

I hope you reacted very badly and then she realised you weren't her ***** and her saying not to call her for a couple of days is her just trying to put you under the thumb again. Don't buy it - don't call her. When she calls you - remember, she's the one that has the grovelling to do and remember to be strong enough to walk if she doesn't. Otherwise, cut of your balls and hand them to her.
 

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Insecure girls will try to put you under the thumb because they're not confident they can keep you any other way.
 
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