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Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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was my reaction justified!?!

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so i was with my girlfriend of several months, we're having a GREAT day. we decide to go pick up one of her friends that i dont know that well. as we're driving, my GF decides to bring up the fact that my penis size when flacid is smaller than other people's. she isnt doing this out of spite or anger - purely a conversation piece. i get embarrassed by this and tell her that she shouldnt talk about private things in front of people like that, ESPECIALLY when im sitting right there. she tells her friend that "its average size when it's erect, though." she still knows im angry and tells me to pull over the car, yelling at me. she leaves screaming and not to talk to her or call her for "a couple days"

i thought that my reaction was justified, any thoughts?
 

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Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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...you told her not to talk about private things in front of people like she did, and she ended up screaming at you and telling you not to call for a couple of days? How angry did you get at this, man?
 

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so i was with my girlfriend of several months, we're having a GREAT day. we decide to go pick up one of her friends that i dont know that well. as we're driving, my GF decides to bring up the fact that my penis size when flacid is smaller than other people's. she isnt doing this out of spite or anger - purely a conversation piece. i get embarrassed by this and tell her that she shouldnt talk about private things in front of people like that, ESPECIALLY when im sitting right there. she tells her friend that "its average size when it's erect, though." she still knows im angry and tells me to pull over the car, yelling at me. she leaves screaming and not to talk to her or call her for "a couple days"

i thought that my reaction was justified, any thoughts?
you havnt done anything wrong..u didnt want her to talk about it she should be understanding.

if i was you ..wait for her to call you..dont chase her and expect her to apologise for screaming at you because you shouldnt let anyone dissrespect u like that
 

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people again said:
i thought that my reaction was justified, any thoughts?
If you want us to comment on your reaction, you should probably tell us more about your reaction. It doesn't make much sense that she would get that angry if you just calmly mentioned that she shouldn't talk about that sort of thing in front of people. So how about you tell us how you flipped out at her that may have caused her to react so badly.
 

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Talk about disrespect! She must be stupid to think what she was saying was acceptable. You had every right to react badly.

I hate to admit it but I wouldve sunk to her level and given away something about her, talked about her breast size or picked up on an insecurity she has.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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"why would u say something like that? thats between you and me. i cant believe you keep talking about it after i just told you that it's between you and me."
 

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hell yeah you were justified that girl reminds me of my sister stay the hell away their the type of girls that tells ever detail to their friends brothers mothers whoever will listen and then if or when you break up over this she would make it out to be your fault i'm with the truth though i would've said something like you got a little ass or pvssy so don't talk
 

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Hahaha! Hey look, up in the sky! It's a bird, NO-it's a plane, NO! It's small-penis man!!!!!

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :yes: :kick: :moon:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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people again said:
so i was with my girlfriend of several months, we're having a GREAT day. we decide to go pick up one of her friends that i dont know that well. as we're driving, my GF decides to bring up the fact that my penis size when flacid is smaller than other people's. she isnt doing this out of spite or anger - purely a conversation piece. i get embarrassed by this and tell her that she shouldnt talk about private things in front of people like that, ESPECIALLY when im sitting right there. she tells her friend that "its average size when it's erect, though." she still knows im angry and tells me to pull over the car, yelling at me. she leaves screaming and not to talk to her or call her for "a couple days"

i thought that my reaction was justified, any thoughts?
My thoughts dont phone the biatch full stop.

Find a better women this one seems bad news.

she sounds like a brat to me.
 

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"Hahaha! Hey look, up in the sky! It's a bird, NO-it's a plane, NO! It's small-penis man!!!!!:"

ok... its average when its erect, that's not the part that bothers me. its the fact that she talked about it in front of me and a friend.
 

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Your girlfriend is disrespectful. Imagine if you were talking about her queefing with your friend there. I bet she wouldn't like that.
 

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I think your response is justified.....Sounds to me like this could be a prelude to reason to breakup from her reaction to you saying what you said.

She went abit OTT......

Plus if a girl ever takes the piss out of your penis.....Use the "Its ot the size that matters....Its how you use it line" or you can say "at least im not **** in bed."

Tell her the only time she should moan about your d!ck is when its inside her....

Sarge On!
 

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ha ha. what a b1tch! total AFC girl who doesn't know what to say or not say infront of her man.

Anyway, I would have just laughed and said...

"well, you seem to enjoy your self when i'm f*cking the sh1t out of you, so i dont know what you're complaining about!" ;)

If you really want to p1ss her off, follow it up with this..
"If we are talking about sizes here, I've noticed how your a*s looks fat when you wear trousers, but not when you wear a skirt. But then again, when you wear a skirt, your ankles look fat. so i really cant win, can i??!"

now THAT will give her something to scream about!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You've lost respect from this girl.... She tells you how things happen... You can continue this as long as you are getting some action, but I'd make plans to either change her, or get a new chick...
 

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Fash said:
ha ha. what a b1tch! total AFC girl who doesn't know what to say or not say infront of her man.

Anyway, I would have just laughed and said...

"well, you seem to enjoy your self when i'm f*cking the sh1t out of you, so i dont know what you're complaining about!" ;)

If you really want to p1ss her off, follow it up with this..
"If we are talking about sizes here, I've noticed how your a*s looks fat when you wear trousers, but not when you wear a skirt. But then again, when you wear a skirt, your ankles look fat. so i really cant win, can i??!"

now THAT will give her something to scream about!
Haha I like these responses.

I would have added that she's lucky it's only average, because it doesn't hurt as much when she begs me to turkey slap her across the face with it.
 

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Tell her the only time she should moan about your d!ck is when its inside her....

That is the best line ever... a-fvcking-men.

Then I'd dump her for being a stupid brat.

You have every reason to be mad.. I think this is a well justified reaction.
 

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Get out now. My neighbor's wife is like this. She reeks of insecurity and it makes his life h*ll. She embarrasses him ALL the time. Get out. LEAVE HER ASS.
 

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a) she knows from previous experience that comments like that bother you
b) she would be bothered if someone made a similar comment to her
c) = a+b

Sounds like you're the victim, so ignore her until she appologizes .. preferable infront of that friend you were driving with.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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