"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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was my reaction justified!?!

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Don Juan
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yea, its been a couple days and we havent talked. im gonna wait for her to call me.

she actually is really insecure and ive had to talk to her before about how she needs to respect me more. and i dont need to tell her that its the captain not the boat, i've given her 12+ orgasms in a 45 min. period. its the PRINCIPAL of the thing that makes me angry. "i dont get no respect."

also, she is always telling me how much she loves me. she gets mad when i dont say it back. she gets worried if i dont call her everyday. she cries when she thinks im mad at her. you might think she is faking all that, but she is actually crying. its all real. is there anything i can do about all of this?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yea - I knew a girl that said I couldn't get wood in front of my mates. The 10 pints and 2 grams of coke didn't help that night.

That didn't amuse me and I said that to her calmly after my friend was gone.

Anyway - I think it was the wrong reaction as it wasn't strong enough and it meant she then thought she could do something similar again which she did.

I hope you reacted very badly and then she realised you weren't her ***** and her saying not to call her for a couple of days is her just trying to put you under the thumb again. Don't buy it - don't call her. When she calls you - remember, she's the one that has the grovelling to do and remember to be strong enough to walk if she doesn't. Otherwise, cut of your balls and hand them to her.
 

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Insecure girls will try to put you under the thumb because they're not confident they can keep you any other way.
 
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