"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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was John Lennon an AFC?

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The other day, a friend of mine accused John of being AFC because of the whole Yoko thing...how she supposedly "broke up the Beatles" (bs, IMO) and how John took a 5-year break from music to become a "househusband." But it's not as if the man stayed home to raise his son Sean while Yoko went out and brought in the income. John had already been a multimegamillionaire and a world idol for 10 years by that time. He had the time and resources, and really wanted to be there for his son....and that's what every real man should do, isn't it? As it is, John missed out on being there for Julian 10 years prior because of his hectic schedule with the Beatles...so he now wanted to make things right with his 2nd son. And yeah, he really loved his wife and seemed to not hold back at all with expressing that. Is that so wrong? I don't really see any AFCism in any of that.

Though I know nobody's perfect, I couldn't bring myself to agree with what my friend said about one of my all-time heroes.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If I was rich I wouldn't work either.
Well maybe I'd be a racecar driver, lol.
 

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Doesn't matter. He was famous, rich and talented. Bingo.
 

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Using the term AFC for everything, including where it does not apply and when it is not understood, is the most AFC thing people do too much around here.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
Using the term AFC for everything, including where it does not apply and when it is not understood, is the most AFC thing people do too much around here.
Haha, glad someone said this... makes me lol :kick:
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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No.

Sometimes frustrated, very often a chump, but definitely not average.
 

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Bonhomme said:
No.

Sometimes frustrated, very often a chump, but definitely not average.
That is correct.

However Pre-Yoko Ono, he fvcked many women who throw themselves at his feet. I believe many men fall into the abyss because the concept of love is construed by society's social conventions and its so haywired into our brain that we don't question to understand it but rather let it happen. Love has become a religion.
 

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On a side note, is it just me who think Lennon is massively overrated?
I'm sure there are others ... but I certainly ain't among them.
 

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I think he was a great musician and a good guy for loving a girl that obviously isn't attractive.

Then again, alot of feminine liberal hippy guys like Lennon or ever more recently Bill Clinton, don't tend to choose the most attractive women as mates!

Let's face it, in general super hotties like jocks not hippies. There can be a few exceptions.
 

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Ricky said:
I think he was a great musician and a good guy for loving a girl that obviously isn't attractive.

Then again, alot of feminine liberal hippy guys like Lennon or ever more recently Bill Clinton, don't tend to choose the most attractive women as mates!

Let's face it, in general super hotties like jocks not hippies. There can be a few exceptions.
Super hotties like hot, successful guys like Rush Limbaugh.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm tired of all these "so and so was AFC" threads.


Dude, worry about YOUR life. Keep from being an AFC. You can't do anything about anybody else. Besides, we don't know what he was like in his personal life.

As far as I know: AFC = Average Frustrated Chump. Your every day guy who gets walked all over. He's convinced women should be put on a pedestal and treated as princesses. They're never wrong in his eyes. Everything is his fault, and he feels that he should act to correct these things. He's convinced that being sweet, nice and caring are the ways to win women over, and then wonders why he gets stuck in the friend zone, while his crush since 3rd grade is getting pounded by guys who just don't give a sh*t.

John Lennon. TOTALLY AFC... :rolleyes:
 
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