“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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well a couple days ago i was messing with a girl who i knew for some time she came over to my friends house i tried to get at her like in April Or March but I
stop calling her. so anyways shes over and im flirtin with her like where my hug at and stuff and she was opening to my request but when she gave it to me u she kinda of fake with so i was like gon bout ya business the n then the next day its night time and they are about to go in the house and she like where my hug so i give her one then a kiss

my friend had to tell me something about they were talking bout but didnt tell me to later we went to the beach and she was swimming i was just walking around then i asked my friend what it was she wanted 2 tell me she said "Jessica really doesnt wanna go with you or talk to u like that she still likes James" im :cuss: pissed off and i tried not to act different but damn that :cuss: aint right. so i tell like her u play to much u not serious bout me and u she says im serious if i wasnt i wouldnt kiss u last night so after that im confused:crazy: she wants another hug and kiss i give it to her like a dodo

i wonder if i was used or not
please give ya manz some input on this
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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If you're not spending money,time,effort or any resources on her and not let her affect you emotionally you are not getting used.The question that you should be answering yourself is if you mind hooking up with a girl that has multiple partners/bfs.Now if you're asking if you're getting played this might be true,do you value your DJ dignity? What i'm trying to say is be in control,that is the issue here.
 
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Man speak in freaking english I can't understand one word of that post you made:kick: :down:
 
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ougoalie said:
Man speak in freaking english I can't understand one word of that post you made:kick: :down:
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Ditto. I counted TWO periods in that poor excuse for a post above.

Gon bout ya biznezz, ya hurd!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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A Stand Up Guy said:
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i wonder if i was used or not
please give ya manz some input on this
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That's something a woman would ask. Of course your being used, be a man and get over it, and learn some grammar while you're at it.
 
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