"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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well a couple days ago i was messing with a girl who i knew for some time she came over to my friends house i tried to get at her like in April Or March but I
stop calling her. so anyways shes over and im flirtin with her like where my hug at and stuff and she was opening to my request but when she gave it to me u she kinda of fake with so i was like gon bout ya business the n then the next day its night time and they are about to go in the house and she like where my hug so i give her one then a kiss

my friend had to tell me something about they were talking bout but didnt tell me to later we went to the beach and she was swimming i was just walking around then i asked my friend what it was she wanted 2 tell me she said "Jessica really doesnt wanna go with you or talk to u like that she still likes James" im :cuss: pissed off and i tried not to act different but damn that :cuss: aint right. so i tell like her u play to much u not serious bout me and u she says im serious if i wasnt i wouldnt kiss u last night so after that im confused:crazy: she wants another hug and kiss i give it to her like a dodo

i wonder if i was used or not
please give ya manz some input on this
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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If you're not spending money,time,effort or any resources on her and not let her affect you emotionally you are not getting used.The question that you should be answering yourself is if you mind hooking up with a girl that has multiple partners/bfs.Now if you're asking if you're getting played this might be true,do you value your DJ dignity? What i'm trying to say is be in control,that is the issue here.
 
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Man speak in freaking english I can't understand one word of that post you made:kick: :down:
 
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ougoalie said:
Man speak in freaking english I can't understand one word of that post you made:kick: :down:
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Ditto. I counted TWO periods in that poor excuse for a post above.

Gon bout ya biznezz, ya hurd!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A Stand Up Guy said:
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i wonder if i was used or not
please give ya manz some input on this
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That's something a woman would ask. Of course your being used, be a man and get over it, and learn some grammar while you're at it.
 
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