"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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well a couple days ago i was messing with a girl who i knew for some time she came over to my friends house i tried to get at her like in April Or March but I
stop calling her. so anyways shes over and im flirtin with her like where my hug at and stuff and she was opening to my request but when she gave it to me u she kinda of fake with so i was like gon bout ya business the n then the next day its night time and they are about to go in the house and she like where my hug so i give her one then a kiss

my friend had to tell me something about they were talking bout but didnt tell me to later we went to the beach and she was swimming i was just walking around then i asked my friend what it was she wanted 2 tell me she said "Jessica really doesnt wanna go with you or talk to u like that she still likes James" im :cuss: pissed off and i tried not to act different but damn that :cuss: aint right. so i tell like her u play to much u not serious bout me and u she says im serious if i wasnt i wouldnt kiss u last night so after that im confused:crazy: she wants another hug and kiss i give it to her like a dodo

i wonder if i was used or not
please give ya manz some input on this
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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If you're not spending money,time,effort or any resources on her and not let her affect you emotionally you are not getting used.The question that you should be answering yourself is if you mind hooking up with a girl that has multiple partners/bfs.Now if you're asking if you're getting played this might be true,do you value your DJ dignity? What i'm trying to say is be in control,that is the issue here.
 
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Man speak in freaking english I can't understand one word of that post you made:kick: :down:
 
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ougoalie said:
Man speak in freaking english I can't understand one word of that post you made:kick: :down:
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Ditto. I counted TWO periods in that poor excuse for a post above.

Gon bout ya biznezz, ya hurd!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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A Stand Up Guy said:
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i wonder if i was used or not
please give ya manz some input on this
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That's something a woman would ask. Of course your being used, be a man and get over it, and learn some grammar while you're at it.
 
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