"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Was I played? or she is confused about me?

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Thanks, I really appreciate your advise and believe me I'm working on it and learning and already started to feel better.
As far as eavesdropping is concerned I can't help it man because she sits right next to me and even if I don't want to hear any conversation, I'll still have to listen to it. Usually I just get up an leave but some times she likes to create mystery by talking out loud on the phone and then comes over to ask if I was able to hear. WTF!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Seeker911 said:
Thanks guys,
But one thing that will always bother me is what she did to me on my birthday, like she took her sweet ass time to come and wish me happy birthday and she sits right next to me, I wouldn't even do that to a stranger. Then cancelled the Dinner plan even though she was the one who came up with it and I kept on saying no to it all this time.
If I am freindzoned, is this something you do to a freind??
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You are not listening to what everyone is trying to tell you! You are not her friend. You are her pet. Being in the friendzone has absolutely nothing to do with genuine friendship.
 
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