"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

Was I played? or she is confused about me?

S

Seeker911

Don Juan
Joined
Sep 12, 2013
Messages
13
Reaction score
0
Thanks, I really appreciate your advise and believe me I'm working on it and learning and already started to feel better.
As far as eavesdropping is concerned I can't help it man because she sits right next to me and even if I don't want to hear any conversation, I'll still have to listen to it. Usually I just get up an leave but some times she likes to create mystery by talking out loud on the phone and then comes over to ask if I was able to hear. WTF!!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Bokanovsky

Bokanovsky

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 7, 2012
Messages
5,528
Reaction score
5,718
Seeker911 said:
Thanks guys,
But one thing that will always bother me is what she did to me on my birthday, like she took her sweet ass time to come and wish me happy birthday and she sits right next to me, I wouldn't even do that to a stranger. Then cancelled the Dinner plan even though she was the one who came up with it and I kept on saying no to it all this time.
If I am freindzoned, is this something you do to a freind??
Click to expand...
You are not listening to what everyone is trying to tell you! You are not her friend. You are her pet. Being in the friendzone has absolutely nothing to do with genuine friendship.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top