Was I played? or she is confused about me?

[Seeker911]

Thanks, I really appreciate your advise and believe me I'm working on it and learning and already started to feel better.
As far as eavesdropping is concerned I can't help it man because she sits right next to me and even if I don't want to hear any conversation, I'll still have to listen to it. Usually I just get up an leave but some times she likes to create mystery by talking out loud on the phone and then comes over to ask if I was able to hear. WTF!!

 

[Bokanovsky]

Thanks guys,
But one thing that will always bother me is what she did to me on my birthday, like she took her sweet ass time to come and wish me happy birthday and she sits right next to me, I wouldn't even do that to a stranger. Then cancelled the Dinner plan even though she was the one who came up with it and I kept on saying no to it all this time.
If I am freindzoned, is this something you do to a freind??

You are not listening to what everyone is trying to tell you! You are not her friend. You are her pet. Being in the friendzone has absolutely nothing to do with genuine friendship.