"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Was I played? or she is confused about me?

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Seeker911

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Thanks, I really appreciate your advise and believe me I'm working on it and learning and already started to feel better.
As far as eavesdropping is concerned I can't help it man because she sits right next to me and even if I don't want to hear any conversation, I'll still have to listen to it. Usually I just get up an leave but some times she likes to create mystery by talking out loud on the phone and then comes over to ask if I was able to hear. WTF!!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Seeker911 said:
Thanks guys,
But one thing that will always bother me is what she did to me on my birthday, like she took her sweet ass time to come and wish me happy birthday and she sits right next to me, I wouldn't even do that to a stranger. Then cancelled the Dinner plan even though she was the one who came up with it and I kept on saying no to it all this time.
If I am freindzoned, is this something you do to a freind??
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You are not listening to what everyone is trying to tell you! You are not her friend. You are her pet. Being in the friendzone has absolutely nothing to do with genuine friendship.
 
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