"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

Was I over-reacting, and what would you have done?

CyrusTheGreat

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Nov 23, 2022
Messages
214
Reaction score
179
Age
35
I agree. Despite the advice on the other thread I am still 5% open to having a baby so in a bit of limbo - i.e. not ending the relationship.

Why I am 5% open? As despite some tantrums she is attractive, slim, perfect ass, intelligent, humorous, clean (easy to live with), great in bed, religious (important to me), great with my family, and hardly drinks. Finding that above age 40 in New Zealand is RARE.
If that's why you're staying with her despite her behaving like a 4-yo and wanting a kid while she is 40+, you can date younger women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

Giovanni SouthSide

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 5, 2022
Messages
724
Reaction score
1,051
Age
35
Location
Tijuana, Mexico
Fvck that. Now a days I rather have a woman respect and fear me than love me.
Love has a nasty habit of disappearing overnight. But her respect and fear of you will linger for some time. Sometimes that can be a turn on for them.
Im not saying to smack or whip her with the belt but to show some aggression here and there in your demeanor and character. Be manly as fvck. She will feel it and not want to poke the beast especially if you fvck her till her lights are out.
She will toe the line and not disrespect you with these stunts.
This one should be iced out to disregard status. She 40 to much trauma from past relationships anyway
 
Top