"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Was I over-reacting, and what would you have done?

CyrusTheGreat

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I agree. Despite the advice on the other thread I am still 5% open to having a baby so in a bit of limbo - i.e. not ending the relationship.

Why I am 5% open? As despite some tantrums she is attractive, slim, perfect ass, intelligent, humorous, clean (easy to live with), great in bed, religious (important to me), great with my family, and hardly drinks. Finding that above age 40 in New Zealand is RARE.
If that's why you're staying with her despite her behaving like a 4-yo and wanting a kid while she is 40+, you can date younger women.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Giovanni SouthSide

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Fvck that. Now a days I rather have a woman respect and fear me than love me.
Love has a nasty habit of disappearing overnight. But her respect and fear of you will linger for some time. Sometimes that can be a turn on for them.
Im not saying to smack or whip her with the belt but to show some aggression here and there in your demeanor and character. Be manly as fvck. She will feel it and not want to poke the beast especially if you fvck her till her lights are out.
She will toe the line and not disrespect you with these stunts.
This one should be iced out to disregard status. She 40 to much trauma from past relationships anyway
 
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