“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Rainman4707 said:
Don't judge so quickly Heisenberg. I was laughing because I found it amusing that GMMR opener was also offensive haha. I just cannot stop laughing about it.

Yeah maybe you're right :)
Mea culpa. All good. Lots to learn, but best bet is to just be yourself. Harder to do online where you can't just say "hello" as in real life, but I think you'd find greater success if you actually had similar interests to what's in the girl's profile and could message her about that and just see if it goes anywhere.*

*Disclaimer: I have limited online experience.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Rainman4707 said:
I've been on the site a few month. I think the reason I got a warning was because last night I used this opener to a few women :-

Awwww that is so friggin cute!

I didn't know they let special needs people post profiles on Match. Bravo and good for you!

Naughty Ninja opener. I'm already banned from POF so as meeting women Online is my main way of meeting women I'm going to have to be a good boy now :yes:
You know you can just provide a different email address and go back on POF again, don't you?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Negs can work (provided they are clever and not overly offensive) on girls that you have already established some rapport with and who are into you. Starting your interaction with a female by calling her a retard is, well, retarded. Most women are quite insecure about their intelligence. Imagine if a girl sent you a message out of the blue saying "Awwww that is so friggin cute! I didn't know they let beta males with tiny pen!ses post profiles on Match. Bravo and good for you!" How effective do you think that would be?
 

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marmel75 said:
You know you can just provide a different email address and go back on POF again, don't you?
I tried that a couple times Marmel. They still nuked me.
Apparently POF can recognise the computer address. Thanks though. You had my hopes up for a second.
 

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You know they checksum the images. My uncle forgot his password and I made him a new one. They kept deleting after I uploaded images. To get it to work I reset the router to get a new ip, resized his images and got him a new email address. Worked after that.
 

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Rainman4707 said:
I've been on the site a few month. I think the reason I got a warning was because last night I used this opener to a few women :-

Awwww that is so friggin cute!

I didn't know they let special needs people post profiles on Match. Bravo and good for you!

Naughty Ninja opener. I'm already banned from POF so as meeting women Online is my main way of meeting women I'm going to have to be a good boy now :yes:
Awesome. You took an obvious joke opener I'd used to see how long it'd take before they threw me off POF a while back as serious. Or you "used" it in an effort to discourage anyone else from the original thread.

No wonder some of you dudes are no hopers. I can honestly picture some of you cats to be the types to tell chicks not to talk to some other dude rather than doing anything yourselves.

Who knows. Perhaps SS will upgrade to be a PUAhate 2.0 where nothing works and there's no hope in life.

Pathetic.
 

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No offense but I can believe you thought that would work for you. Ah well, what's done is done. Better off sending something generic like "saw your profile, you seem interesting. Let me know if you want to chat". Still lame...but if they like your pics you may still get a bite.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The411 said:
Awesome. You took an obvious joke opener I'd used to see how long it'd take before they threw me off POF a while back as serious. Or you "used" it in an effort to discourage anyone else from the original thread.

No wonder some of you dudes are no hopers. I can honestly picture some of you cats to be the types to tell chicks not to talk to some other dude rather than doing anything yourselves.

Who knows. Perhaps SS will upgrade to be a PUAhate 2.0 where nothing works and there's no hope in life.

Pathetic.
still trolling? the only pathetic person here is you with your obvious hate for this site and its members.
 

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GS750 said:
No offense but I can believe you thought that would work for you. Ah well, what's done is done. Better off sending something generic like "saw your profile, you seem interesting. Let me know if you want to chat". Still lame...but if they like your pics you may still get a bite.
Nah. I was killing it on there a while back. That was at the point I was on and got bored with it. Felt like fkn around to see if I'd get booted and it worked. A few responded. Some most likely just reported.

Dudes seem to take it almost as if their lives depend on OLD otherwise they wouldn't get mad much less give a damn if it does or doesn't "work". lol

asa_don said:
still trolling? the only pathetic person here is you with your obvious hate for this site and its members.
Kewl story brah. Same fruitcake who was attempting to argue with Incognito42 on the POF thread that it "didn't work". GTFO
 

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Here's some A1 openers for OLD:

"Hey were you ever in National Geographic? Is there any Basque or Chippewa in your family?"

"Can I get that jacket back I loaned your brother?"

"What are you getting me for Christmas? I got you a cheese of the month club, this is your first installment."

"Could you put up a duckface picture? Those are my favorite."

"Is your closet big enough to stretch out in for a few hours, or should I bring a stool?"

Don't worry folks, I'll be here all week!
 

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When i look at that e-mail I know she is most likely to find it offensive.
I didn't use it often...just used it one in fifty emails to women who I viewed as not a priority.
Funny thing is I actually got a couple numbers from 7's using that e-mail...reason behind that is because I'm a good looking lad.

Goes without saying that most women were offended by that mail though.
For me it's a numbers game. Yes if I spot something in her profile i'll be straight on it, but a lot`of the time they get copy/paste messages.

Original post e-mail was sent out to high maintenance 9's.
 
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