Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I've been on the site a few month. I think the reason I got a warning was because last night I used this opener to a few women :-

Awwww that is so friggin cute!

I didn't know they let special needs people post profiles on Match. Bravo and good for you!

Naughty Ninja opener. I'm already banned from POF so as meeting women Online is my main way of meeting women I'm going to have to be a good boy now :yes:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mike32ct said:
It's ok. Women love virgin guys according to another thread lol.
Yeah, written by a woman! There was another thread started by a chick which was about no sex before marriage/ committment. I locked it because it takes men backward.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So...a few women complained about you for sending that? Figures.
 

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Mike32ct said:
It's ok. Women love virgin guys according to another thread lol.

Hahaha, yeah...let's set up a date at a hotel, get a few rooms, and she can devirginize us all. Her legs'll look like ( )
 

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I know, right? How dare they ban you for calling every person a retard when you start a conversation with them? The nerve!!
 

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And you're shocked? The video game administration doesn't want you offending their target market? Wow, can you believe it? Women trying to censor you or otherwise emasculate you? ...it's gotta be a first.
:rolleyes:

:cry: Freedom of speech doesn't make me feelz gud. :cry:

lol@"I know, right?"
 

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That's true. Online dating is, after all, a women's world. You can't offend them. So offensive haha.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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You're really on the cutting edge with this whole "negging" thing. Can't believe girls aren't just dropping their panties for you.

When I read posts like this one, I wonder if some guys on here have literally never spoken to a woman in real life.
 

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I don't get it.

Is this man serious or just joking?

I don't think calling someone a retard is the way to go. Lol

Does that shìt work for some people?
 

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A neg is a backhanded compliment. That my friend is an insult, now combine that with what's supposed to be her online validation hugbox in our current culture of "Roll up roll up !! Everyone's a victim so here's why that's a problem" = you're going to have a bad time.
 

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i told you before not to use naughty ninja's lame ass openers.

they are over used, lame, not funny, people get banned for using them, his openers are marked as spam by pof, too many people used them, they don't work.

basically you are telling women they are stupid, how is that funny?

not sure why anybody ever used any of those lame openers.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Why can't you meet women in person?

That opener is epically bad.

Like...

http://www.imore.com/sites/imore.com/files/images/stories/2011/10/double-facepalm.jpg
I work 60 hours a week. I could go out & meet women in the city (daygame), but online is...well...I've had the most success online, less time consuming....although recently I have met a few strange women online. I'm always on the lookout, ready to pounce. Spare time away from work I've been busy seeing my plates & sorting out house, training etc.
 

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GettinMyMindRight said:
This. A backhanded compliment is something like:

"I really like your earrings. My grandmother wears a lot of fake jewelry too."
No, that's also an insult.

A backhanded compliment is more like: That's some pretty good taste in jewelry for a Midwest girl ;)
 

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Rainman4707 said:
Hahahaha hahahaha.Haha what a belta.
But it was. The backhanded compliment has to actually contain a compliment. In GMMR's case, he was calling her earrings fake. In your case, you were calling girls retarded.

You know, Rainman, when your game is so, so atrocious, it might be best to post less and read/learn more. Something about people living in glass houses not throwing bricks.
 

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Heisenberg said:
But it was. The backhanded compliment has to actually contain a compliment. In GMMR's case, he was calling her earrings fake. In your case, you were calling girls retarded.

You know, Rainman, when your game is so, so atrocious, it might be best to post less and read/learn more. Something about people living in glass houses not throwing bricks.
Don't judge so quickly Heisenberg. I was laughing because I found it amusing that GMMR opener was also offensive haha. I just cannot stop laughing about it.

Yeah maybe you're right :)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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