Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I've been on the site a few month. I think the reason I got a warning was because last night I used this opener to a few women :-

Awwww that is so friggin cute!

I didn't know they let special needs people post profiles on Match. Bravo and good for you!

Naughty Ninja opener. I'm already banned from POF so as meeting women Online is my main way of meeting women I'm going to have to be a good boy now :yes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Mike32ct said:
It's ok. Women love virgin guys according to another thread lol.
Yeah, written by a woman! There was another thread started by a chick which was about no sex before marriage/ committment. I locked it because it takes men backward.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So...a few women complained about you for sending that? Figures.
 

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Mike32ct said:
It's ok. Women love virgin guys according to another thread lol.

Hahaha, yeah...let's set up a date at a hotel, get a few rooms, and she can devirginize us all. Her legs'll look like ( )
 

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I know, right? How dare they ban you for calling every person a retard when you start a conversation with them? The nerve!!
 

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And you're shocked? The video game administration doesn't want you offending their target market? Wow, can you believe it? Women trying to censor you or otherwise emasculate you? ...it's gotta be a first.
:rolleyes:

:cry: Freedom of speech doesn't make me feelz gud. :cry:

lol@"I know, right?"
 

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That's true. Online dating is, after all, a women's world. You can't offend them. So offensive haha.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You're really on the cutting edge with this whole "negging" thing. Can't believe girls aren't just dropping their panties for you.

When I read posts like this one, I wonder if some guys on here have literally never spoken to a woman in real life.
 

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I don't get it.

Is this man serious or just joking?

I don't think calling someone a retard is the way to go. Lol

Does that shìt work for some people?
 

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A neg is a backhanded compliment. That my friend is an insult, now combine that with what's supposed to be her online validation hugbox in our current culture of "Roll up roll up !! Everyone's a victim so here's why that's a problem" = you're going to have a bad time.
 

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i told you before not to use naughty ninja's lame ass openers.

they are over used, lame, not funny, people get banned for using them, his openers are marked as spam by pof, too many people used them, they don't work.

basically you are telling women they are stupid, how is that funny?

not sure why anybody ever used any of those lame openers.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GettinMyMindRight said:
Why can't you meet women in person?

That opener is epically bad.

Like...

http://www.imore.com/sites/imore.com/files/images/stories/2011/10/double-facepalm.jpg
I work 60 hours a week. I could go out & meet women in the city (daygame), but online is...well...I've had the most success online, less time consuming....although recently I have met a few strange women online. I'm always on the lookout, ready to pounce. Spare time away from work I've been busy seeing my plates & sorting out house, training etc.
 

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GettinMyMindRight said:
This. A backhanded compliment is something like:

"I really like your earrings. My grandmother wears a lot of fake jewelry too."
No, that's also an insult.

A backhanded compliment is more like: That's some pretty good taste in jewelry for a Midwest girl ;)
 

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Rainman4707 said:
Hahahaha hahahaha.Haha what a belta.
But it was. The backhanded compliment has to actually contain a compliment. In GMMR's case, he was calling her earrings fake. In your case, you were calling girls retarded.

You know, Rainman, when your game is so, so atrocious, it might be best to post less and read/learn more. Something about people living in glass houses not throwing bricks.
 

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Heisenberg said:
But it was. The backhanded compliment has to actually contain a compliment. In GMMR's case, he was calling her earrings fake. In your case, you were calling girls retarded.

You know, Rainman, when your game is so, so atrocious, it might be best to post less and read/learn more. Something about people living in glass houses not throwing bricks.
Don't judge so quickly Heisenberg. I was laughing because I found it amusing that GMMR opener was also offensive haha. I just cannot stop laughing about it.

Yeah maybe you're right :)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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