"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Wants my kids then natta

guitaronfire411

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Hey there!

Long time no post. Been off-again and on-again with my girlfriend for the last 6 years. She is bipolar. She has claimed in the past to never want to see me again and then sought me out, etc.

IN the last two weeks, she made me promise we would have kids before she gets to be 35. We also agreed upon getting an apartment together. Now she says that she likes me and cares for me, just not enough to want to marry me. So we broke up last Sunday because I said I wanted her to be happy with life. SHe claims that the last week being glorious but i know she says one thing and often feels differently or admits different feelings later.

I really care a lot for this girl and would love to be with her with kids and married. She finds it hard to believe that I would delay marriage and living together for years so we can date. I told her that I would move to be with her.

The toughest part is that she changes her mind so frequently. A different friend said that she should act her age (almost 31) instead of acting 14 all the time. How can I convince her that I am the guy she needs?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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backbreaker

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what the **** is wrong with you. the **** dude, leave. jesus christ. stop self flagellating yourself
 
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