"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Wants my kids then natta

guitaronfire411

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Hey there!

Long time no post. Been off-again and on-again with my girlfriend for the last 6 years. She is bipolar. She has claimed in the past to never want to see me again and then sought me out, etc.

IN the last two weeks, she made me promise we would have kids before she gets to be 35. We also agreed upon getting an apartment together. Now she says that she likes me and cares for me, just not enough to want to marry me. So we broke up last Sunday because I said I wanted her to be happy with life. SHe claims that the last week being glorious but i know she says one thing and often feels differently or admits different feelings later.

I really care a lot for this girl and would love to be with her with kids and married. She finds it hard to believe that I would delay marriage and living together for years so we can date. I told her that I would move to be with her.

The toughest part is that she changes her mind so frequently. A different friend said that she should act her age (almost 31) instead of acting 14 all the time. How can I convince her that I am the guy she needs?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

backbreaker

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what the **** is wrong with you. the **** dude, leave. jesus christ. stop self flagellating yourself
 
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