i agreeWarboss Alex said:As I suspected, you have no muscle to define. I would cut back some tennis, gain some muscle and then reassess.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
i agreeWarboss Alex said:As I suspected, you have no muscle to define. I would cut back some tennis, gain some muscle and then reassess.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I would kill to look like that and be able to run of 20ks
In that picture, unless he's 9 feet tall and has massive calves and a huge back, then he is not over 200lbs.In any case hes sitting there with his brownlow (best in the league) medal so he doesn't care. And are you saying 160 pounds? I know for a fact he is over 200.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hell you have a lot more confidence in me than I do. Although yeah I do wish I was himIt sounds to me like you want to be HIM. You can easily achieve a better looking body than that within a year, but you seem to be disqualifying yourself and putting it out of your reach already.
for anyone wanting to gain weight, fibre intake should be high, even higher than normal. why drop the salads?Espi said:Dump the salads.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
that's where I get my salad cals from.Espi said:And, no, Hidden Valley Ranch dressing doesn't count.
Espi said:He needs no veggies right now.
that is why we disagree..Espi said:Eat as many carbs as you like, and make sure you're getting 10-15% of your caloric intake from fats.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
There are a whole bunch of reasons to eat veggies... And a multivitamin just doesn't cut it.Sources of Phytochemicals - Fruits, vegetables, whole grains, legumes and nuts are rich sources of phytochemicals (plant chemicals) that may help reduce our risk for certain types of cancer, heart disease and several other illnesses. The following chart summarizes some of the current research findings:
How the chemicals help as shown in some studies:
Citrus,
including
grapefruit,
lemon, orange, tangerine,
lime Vitamin C
Folic acid
Lutein Zeaxanthin
Help the body get rid of carcinogens, inhibit heart disease, improve fertility, and inhibit mild depression. Lutein and zeaxanthin may help lower the risk of macular degeneration and other eye diseases.
Solanaceae,
including
peppers,
potato,
tomato,
eggplant
Capsaicin
Antioxidants
Vitamin C
Protect lungs from cigarette smoke, reduce blood pressure, and promote weight control. Lycopenes (red natural colorants) found in tomatoes and peppers may help prevent prostate cancer.
Cruciferae,
including
radish,
broccoli,
cabbage,
Brussel
sprouts,
kale, arugula,
cauliflower
Sulforophane
Vitamins C,
A and K Antioxidants
Deactivate old estrogen and testosterone, protect DNA from harmful oxidants and stimulate the body to detoxify carcinogens. Sulforophanes in broccoli and kale may reduce risk of breast cancer.
Rosaceae,
including
berries,
almond,
apricot, apple,
pear, plum
Ellagic acid
Antioxidants
Pectin
Vitamins E and C
Block tumor growth, prevent blood clots, help prevent fungal infection, reduce blood cholesterol and improve mental function associated with aging.
Leguminosea,
including
peanuts, peas,
soybeans (tofu, soymilk),
beans,
lentils
Phytoestrogens
Folate
Genistein
B vitamins
Vitamin E
Magnesium
Reduce cholesterol and hot flashes and improve glucose control in diabetes.
Allium, including
garlic, onion,
leek, asparagus,
chive, scallion
Saponins Sulfer compounds
Selenium
Antioxidants
Stimulate the immune system, inhibit cancer growth, and decrease blood cholesterol.
Cucurbitaceae,
Including
watermelon,
cantaloupe,
pumpkin,
squash Zeaxanthin
Beta-carotene
Soluble fiber
Inhibit heart disease, cancer, diabetes and obesity.
Exactly: 1 is not surprising given 2 (+ your recommendation of a lower protein intake).Espi said:1 I have a hard time digesting 20 cals. per lb
2 That is why I avoid veggies during the bulking phase.
lolEspi said:Why do I need "anti-oxidants, nutrients, minerals"?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.