"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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BetterCallSaul

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I just signed up for this site though I've been lurking off and on for almost a year. I decided to jump in because I keep coming back to the site for the success stories I read but perhaps more importantly the encouragement young men here give one another. I could have definitely used this when I was in my early 20s.

I'm happily married now with some kids but there's still the occasionally challenges and sh!t tests that women like to do. I occasionally would like an objective view to my reactions on these. But also I read some threads and feel like I could offer a little advice based on my own experience or how not to let someone walk all over you.

Anyway, this is a great site and I hope it stays strong for years to come.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dasein

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Hey, welcome, like the user name. It is a great site. Hope you find what you are seeking here.
 
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