"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BetterCallSaul

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I just signed up for this site though I've been lurking off and on for almost a year. I decided to jump in because I keep coming back to the site for the success stories I read but perhaps more importantly the encouragement young men here give one another. I could have definitely used this when I was in my early 20s.

I'm happily married now with some kids but there's still the occasionally challenges and sh!t tests that women like to do. I occasionally would like an objective view to my reactions on these. But also I read some threads and feel like I could offer a little advice based on my own experience or how not to let someone walk all over you.

Anyway, this is a great site and I hope it stays strong for years to come.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dasein

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Hey, welcome, like the user name. It is a great site. Hope you find what you are seeking here.
 
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