"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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BetterCallSaul

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I just signed up for this site though I've been lurking off and on for almost a year. I decided to jump in because I keep coming back to the site for the success stories I read but perhaps more importantly the encouragement young men here give one another. I could have definitely used this when I was in my early 20s.

I'm happily married now with some kids but there's still the occasionally challenges and sh!t tests that women like to do. I occasionally would like an objective view to my reactions on these. But also I read some threads and feel like I could offer a little advice based on my own experience or how not to let someone walk all over you.

Anyway, this is a great site and I hope it stays strong for years to come.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dasein

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Hey, welcome, like the user name. It is a great site. Hope you find what you are seeking here.
 
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