I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Slick, you took the words directly out of my mouth. Randy/ten, I won't tell you how you gave yourself away besides the register dates and number of posts. Don't you have homework to do or something? On second thought, please don't respond---you nor your alter ego.Originally posted by Slickster
I call bullsh!t!
I'll bet that tensummonertales and randyblueeyes are the same guy. Look at the # of posts and register dates.
Mods?
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
NJS called. You left your helmet on the short bus again.Originally posted by tensummonerstales
SPIC - one born with the lettuce picking/hotwiring talents. in the female variety we have also found that they are born pregnant.
Just checked the IP's. Good call Slick, they are infact, one in the same.Originally posted by Slickster
I call bullsh!t!
I'll bet that tensummonertales and randyblueeyes are the same guy. Look at the # of posts and register dates.
Mods?