"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Want to try tinder again and need some input

sangheilios

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I've tinder in the past and didn't really get much out of it, though at the time there wasn't really much on there. I actually went through some profiles, just swiped left on everything just to see what the quality of women was like now, and there were actually a lot of cute women on there.

What types of photos should I put up on there and what should I mention in my description? I'm tall and in shape so I'm not really sure how to display that without doing the typical bathroom mirror selfie nonsense.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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backseatjuan

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I wouldn't do tinder, there are plenty of other apps, do them before you do tinder. Badoo for example. Just type dating in appstore. Because tinder is not popular everywhere.

You need one pic at the club or when you are traveling or having some sort of fun. One pic where you are masculine, for example your buddy taking pic of you at the gym. Selfies are sht because then woman is gonna think you don't have a friend to take your pic, but they do work if you are 10/10.

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In description write 'two hands, two legs' or 'I'm gonna kiss you on our first date'


You got a business of some sort?
 

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Ship has sailed. Tinder isn’t trendy anymore. Nothing left on there but attention *****s who don’t intend to meet just use it for validation, fattys and fake profiles. You missed the bus my friend.
 

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I wouldn't do tinder, there are plenty of other apps, do them before you do tinder. Badoo for example. Just type dating in appstore. Because tinder is not popular everywhere.

You need one pic at the club or when you are traveling or having some sort of fun. One pic where you are masculine, for example your buddy taking pic of you at the gym. Selfies are sht because then woman is gonna think you don't have a friend to take your pic, but they do work if you are 10/10.

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In description write 'two hands, two legs' or 'I'm gonna kiss you on our first date'


You got a business of some sort?
is that you?
 

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Hinge is the best dating app in my area (PA/NJ/NY) and for my preferred demographic (18-29). I consistently get highly interested girls on there, Tinder is second best; a lot of users but the girls are not highly interested because they’re inundated with messages. Everything else is completely worthless.

Basically go for pics that show off your good attributes but also show off some kind of social proof. If you want to show that you’re in shape, for example, you might go for a beach picture. Also, high res pics are seen as more attractive.

Bios can vary widely but I like to go for something funny that also invites an easy response so they can open without much effort if they wanted to. You should make it reflect your personality.

Dating apps are not that complicated. People think there is a magic formula to it but, like everything else, girls will either like you or they won’t.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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