"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Want to stay with GF but play the field

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Ok guys I'm in sort of a situation here. I'm with a girl. Wife material at that. 25, 3 prior sexual partners, educated, good family background, takes care of me, def a sweetheart. She's really nothing I can complain about. Problem is I have a sort of commitment issue. I would like to keep here but get a few more notches on my bed post before I decide if I want to marry or not. I figured you guys would be the ones to help me out with some tactics on pulling this off. If I marry I will remain loyal. There is just no ring on the finger right now so I want to take advantage. I travel all over North America with work, I make decent money 100,000.00+ a year, I could afford to drop a few pounds. So can any of you guys help me out on how to pull this off without getting caught?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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i dont think you will find help on this forum. this site is not about cheating on your gf. there is still a high level of respect on this forum
 
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It's so simple:

You don't. You found the needle in the haystack and now your gonna drop it? Wth is the matter with you?
 
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That sounds incredibly retarded. Don't do something to someone that you don't want to happen to you.
 
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In fact, I hope you do cheat on her, she catches you, and she leaves you for somebody with moral character.
 
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NEPA said:
Ok guys I'm in sort of a situation here. I'm with a girl. Wife material at that. 25, 3 prior sexual partners, educated, good family background, takes care of me, def a sweetheart. She's really nothing I can complain about. Problem is I have a sort of commitment issue. I would like to keep here but get a few more notches on my bed post before I decide if I want to marry or not. I figured you guys would be the ones to help me out with some tactics on pulling this off. If I marry I will remain loyal. There is just no ring on the finger right now so I want to take advantage. I travel all over North America with work, I make decent money 100,000.00+ a year, I could afford to drop a few pounds. So can any of you guys help me out on how to pull this off without getting caught?
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Yeah right. You have gingivitis. Your teeth are rotten.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Why don't you just date and sleep around ?
Developing a cheating habit is bad , it will only get worst.
 
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NEPA said:
Ok guys I'm in sort of a situation here. I'm with a girl. Wife material at that. 25, 3 prior sexual partners, educated, good family background, takes care of me, def a sweetheart. She's really nothing I can complain about. Problem is I have a sort of commitment issue. I would like to keep here but get a few more notches on my bed post before I decide if I want to marry or not. I figured you guys would be the ones to help me out with some tactics on pulling this off. If I marry I will remain loyal. There is just no ring on the finger right now so I want to take advantage. I travel all over North America with work, I make decent money 100,000.00+ a year, I could afford to drop a few pounds. So can any of you guys help me out on how to pull this off without getting caught?
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But you aren't potty trained yet? What's it like for girls to have to change your diapers? Isn't it pathetic that you are 25 years old and still in diapers?
 
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NEPA said:
Ok guys I'm in sort of a situation here. I'm with a girl. Wife material at that. 25, 3 prior sexual partners, educated, good family background, takes care of me, def a sweetheart. She's really nothing I can complain about. Problem is I have a sort of commitment issue. I would like to keep here but get a few more notches on my bed post before I decide if I want to marry or not. I figured you guys would be the ones to help me out with some tactics on pulling this off. If I marry I will remain loyal. There is just no ring on the finger right now so I want to take advantage. I travel all over North America with work, I make decent money 100,000.00+ a year, I could afford to drop a few pounds. So can any of you guys help me out on how to pull this off without getting caught?
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Use tinder when you are on your business trips. Don't give your phone number out and never see a girl more than once. Only date while out of your home city. You may find after you get it out of your system, you will settle down
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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