"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Want to stay with GF but play the field

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Ok guys I'm in sort of a situation here. I'm with a girl. Wife material at that. 25, 3 prior sexual partners, educated, good family background, takes care of me, def a sweetheart. She's really nothing I can complain about. Problem is I have a sort of commitment issue. I would like to keep here but get a few more notches on my bed post before I decide if I want to marry or not. I figured you guys would be the ones to help me out with some tactics on pulling this off. If I marry I will remain loyal. There is just no ring on the finger right now so I want to take advantage. I travel all over North America with work, I make decent money 100,000.00+ a year, I could afford to drop a few pounds. So can any of you guys help me out on how to pull this off without getting caught?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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i dont think you will find help on this forum. this site is not about cheating on your gf. there is still a high level of respect on this forum
 
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It's so simple:

You don't. You found the needle in the haystack and now your gonna drop it? Wth is the matter with you?
 
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That sounds incredibly retarded. Don't do something to someone that you don't want to happen to you.
 
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In fact, I hope you do cheat on her, she catches you, and she leaves you for somebody with moral character.
 
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NEPA said:
Ok guys I'm in sort of a situation here. I'm with a girl. Wife material at that. 25, 3 prior sexual partners, educated, good family background, takes care of me, def a sweetheart. She's really nothing I can complain about. Problem is I have a sort of commitment issue. I would like to keep here but get a few more notches on my bed post before I decide if I want to marry or not. I figured you guys would be the ones to help me out with some tactics on pulling this off. If I marry I will remain loyal. There is just no ring on the finger right now so I want to take advantage. I travel all over North America with work, I make decent money 100,000.00+ a year, I could afford to drop a few pounds. So can any of you guys help me out on how to pull this off without getting caught?
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Yeah right. You have gingivitis. Your teeth are rotten.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Why don't you just date and sleep around ?
Developing a cheating habit is bad , it will only get worst.
 
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NEPA said:
Ok guys I'm in sort of a situation here. I'm with a girl. Wife material at that. 25, 3 prior sexual partners, educated, good family background, takes care of me, def a sweetheart. She's really nothing I can complain about. Problem is I have a sort of commitment issue. I would like to keep here but get a few more notches on my bed post before I decide if I want to marry or not. I figured you guys would be the ones to help me out with some tactics on pulling this off. If I marry I will remain loyal. There is just no ring on the finger right now so I want to take advantage. I travel all over North America with work, I make decent money 100,000.00+ a year, I could afford to drop a few pounds. So can any of you guys help me out on how to pull this off without getting caught?
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But you aren't potty trained yet? What's it like for girls to have to change your diapers? Isn't it pathetic that you are 25 years old and still in diapers?
 
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NEPA said:
Ok guys I'm in sort of a situation here. I'm with a girl. Wife material at that. 25, 3 prior sexual partners, educated, good family background, takes care of me, def a sweetheart. She's really nothing I can complain about. Problem is I have a sort of commitment issue. I would like to keep here but get a few more notches on my bed post before I decide if I want to marry or not. I figured you guys would be the ones to help me out with some tactics on pulling this off. If I marry I will remain loyal. There is just no ring on the finger right now so I want to take advantage. I travel all over North America with work, I make decent money 100,000.00+ a year, I could afford to drop a few pounds. So can any of you guys help me out on how to pull this off without getting caught?
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Use tinder when you are on your business trips. Don't give your phone number out and never see a girl more than once. Only date while out of your home city. You may find after you get it out of your system, you will settle down
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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